Lady A’s girlie husband writes his views.
So I sit at home on this wet and cold Sunday afternoon writing this post in a knee-length patterned flowing skirt, a pink jumper and skin tone shiny tights. At home I am nearly always a girl now. There was a big change in our game a few days ago. Lady A as she always does, came up with a new idea. “I´d like you to be my girl and my housewife whenever we´re at home” she said. This has been a major change in the game but so far very exciting. In fact as I sit dressed in a pretty flowing skirt, Lady A is wearing black trousers and boots. A complete role reversal.
I did miss one day last week but it was for a good reason, I was watching England beat Brazil on the telly and having a couple of beers. I stayed in my man clothes. Sometimes I have to enjoy my male side too!
However, usually at home I now wear female clothes. I return from the office after work and change immediately into a skirt or a dress if we´re staying in for the evening. At night I wear a silk effect nightie or baby doll in bed. My legs are completely smooth as we use hair remover cream and my crotch area is shaved smooth. Day to day in the home Lady A now just calls me girl or girlie, often prefixed with good, naughty, pretty and so on. Weekend evenings at home I wear make up and paint my nails. In my wardrobe I have two of my own dresses hanging up and several skirts and tops. I can also fit into two more of Lady A´s looser dresses, just. Lady A wants to shop with me for another dress for me and it has to be said, I want a new one too. We’re also looking for a light summer dress and a couple of micro skirts for the warmer weather. The looking for it and buying can be just as much fun as wearing.
I am not a psychologist so I can´t offer a scientific rationale as to why both myself and Lady A are so excited by the feminisation game. Lady A and I have read a fair bit of literature on this subject and I certainly fit the profile: middle class, well educated professional in a managerial position at work and lots of responsibilities at work and in private. I never felt the urge to be feminised before I met Lady A though. In fact I enjoyed my typically male activities and still do. I am also 100% heterosexual, again according to the literature, very typical of a male cross dresser. Yes I think that is what I have to now admit I am.
Whilst I enjoy male activities, I am actually more comfortable in the company of women. In fact I prefer their company. The majority of my friends were and are female, completely platonic. I went to three football cup finals with one of my female friends!! I also think about my childhood where I lived a very typical boy´s childhood. There were none of the things you read where the mothers or grandmothers dressed their boys in girl´s clothes. No that did not happen, quite the reverse as I was encouraged to follow male activities.
However I now love being Lady A´s girlie at home and she encourages this. Well it´s all usually her ideas. Baking and cooking for her, clearing up the house, combing her hair and painting her nails are the most relaxing way to forget about other things going on. I don´t think I fit the sissy profile as they seem to like to wear those over the top pink silk dresses with long wigs and lots of bows. No we enjoy that I wear something that any girl or housewife would wear. That said Lady A and I usually like it that I wear quite short skirts and dresses, however, I´m a girlie rather than a sissy I would say, if I can invent a subset of feminisation categories.
However another aspect of this game is humiliation. This has many forms including showing me off to other females and is very sexually exciting for us. It can give me an erection and make me very damp, Lady A too. She calls my willy a sissy stick or often just a sissy. It´s her toy,she owns it, does whatever she wants with it. She likes to play around with it a lot actually. I don´t know why we enjoy this area of the game and I can´t see a background for it´s reason. However it is thrilling so we do it.
Lady A´s latest idea is to want me to appear outside the house in female clothes. She does make me go into the garden to collect things and her latest plan is that I pick her up in the car wearing a dress or a skirt. Not getting out of the car of course but just to go out.
We also now plan to try to find others who enjoy the the same game and to have more regular meetings such as coffee or dinner evenings, with me or other ‘girlies’ in the housewife role of course whilst the Ladies chat, relax and enjoy themselves. At the moment we´ve only had a couple of these events which were through Lady A´s friends or colleagues. This is unlikely to be a regular avenue for playing as it was a little embarrassing in real life after and the other friend lives up north. So to find others not in our current circle of friends whilst avoiding the obvious weirdos out there will be our next challenge. I guess some careful internet searches on sites that cater for this type of interest is required.
So to finish my ramblings we wonder where this could go next. In recent weeks our feminisation game has escalated. I think beyond finding some others to regularly play the game with, we’ve probably reached an area and a level of playing where we are both happy. We will add a female wig into the game. Our first attempt to use blond hasn’t worked so well (see below) so we need to find something more suitable. We do not want to move into BDSM or anything sordid. This makes us think we’ve pretty much arrived where we want to be although we didn’t know where that would be when we started.