Step 12 shave, shave shave
So I had my husband wearing dresses, skirts and tights. There was a problem. He had male hair on his legs which showed through his new tights. Plus some hair on his chest which showed on the low cut dress. Worse than that, his genitals were quite hairy and this looked far too masculine. Time for the next big step.
It was a warm evening and I was feeling sexy and persuaded my husband to put on his dress but without tights. Time to play the unattractive card again.
“You have such lovely long legs. Sooo sexy” she said to him. I love to see them in a short dress or skirt”. He looked very embarrassed but also he liked the attention and having me so attracted to him.
I looked longingly at him. “Couldn’t we just remove the hair on your legs and chest. It would look so sexy.”
He was again, not keen on this idea. I kept on and eventually produced hair removal cream. I led him into the bathroom and applied it. He was quite embarrassed again but the idea was also exciting.
“We can’t use this on your sissy stick and balls so we can just shave them” she stated after washing the hairs from the legs and chest down the shower drain.
He objected. However I offered to do it for him and led him naked into the living room. I ordered him to lay on the floor with his legs wide and I would shave it for him. Again I liked it with an erotic act and he complied. he did enjoy it. He was shaved.
Step 12 overcome all his objections by being inventive
He will lapse, ‘forget to wear a skirt’, make excuses and so on. You need to overcome all objections by being inventive. For example he was doing some diy in the house and put on his old jeans. I went straight to the charity shop for two casual skirts in his size and came back. He had to wear skirts for decorating no excuse and here are some old skirts to wear. Another time he objected to shaving his legs as they would show in the gym and be too obvious. Answer: long track suit bottoms. Problems solved but always be on your guard for his objections.
Step 13 Feminise his sissy stick
If you’re not careful he will always have one part of his anatomy that shows him to be male. I came up with a great solution; feminise it. two ways to do this. 1, Re-name it as a pussy in general and a clitoris or clitty for the sissy stick. 2. I now makes him shave a nice little triangle of pubic hair just above his clitty, the rest being completely shaved.This has worked beautifully.
Step 14 make him sit down on the toilet.
One of the most important changes you need to make is to get your feminised man to sit down when going to the toilet. This single act really emphasises his feminisation and has the side benefit of making sure there are no splashes to clean up around the toilet afterwards. In fact it is this logic that you should use to get him to sit down.
I started the sit down campaign by constantly highlighting the splashes around the toilet and the toilet seat, even when there weren’t any they would be invented. By constant reinforcing the problem of splashes he will eventually give in. It might sound strange but it is very satisfying to see my girly husband sitting on the toilet with his knickers round his ankles and his little skirt across his thighs.
Of course it is necessary to continue to monitor this and ensure he always sits down. One way is to occasionally check with him by asking if to confirm he always sits on the toilet. Another way is is to regularly go in the toilet with him when he needs to pee and stand over him.
It’s worth the small effort and of course puts you as the mistress completely in charge of things, as it should be.
Step 15 female only beauty products
I got rid of any male products. Even his razor was replaced with female razors. No more after-shave just female perfumes, in fact we share the same perfume. Deodorants and moisturisers, shampoos, shower gels and so on. This is necessary to reinforce his feminisation.
Step 16 make up and nail varnish
Buy him his own female make up bag and stock with his own make up, lipsticks and nail varnishes. There is now no excuse for him not having beautiful pink nail varnished toe nails at all time. It should all be reinforced continually by showing how lovely you think he looks.
Step 17 A bra
Without a bra he just can’t feel as we feel. I made him put a dress on one day. “Some thing is still wrong” she said. “You need to fill out your dress at the front. You need a bra”.
“Men don’t need bras. There is nothing to support”, he objected.
“Yes I know but the dress doesn’t fit properly so it’s just to make it work”. With that she went upstairs and came back with a large bra which she made him put on. Again she complimented him on just how lovely he looked and rewarded him with a great evening of…. well you know what.
There was still a problem. Although I had got him to wear female clothes at times, they were still associated with sex and she really wanted him in female clothes every time possible. He had to think of female clothing as the norm.
Step 18 Call him a girl at all times
I had stopped calling him a man and had often referred to him as girl. I don’t actually use any name at all most of the time and just refer to her as girl as in “come here girl, beautiful girl, good girl, bad girl” and so on.
Step 19 Ban trousers in the house
Now the key objective of the process, to get him/her to wear skirts and dresses whenever possible. He should wear skirts and dresses as normal wear only reverting to trousers to leave the house. He was now the housewife and he must be female.
I realised that I needed to be tough again. No more persuasion. I had the upper hand now so I just needed a final push.
It was a romantic evening meal, one Friday evening at home in September. Prepared by my part time housewife and girl. We sat down and my girl opened the wine. We ate the meal and drank the wine and were feeling quite relaxed. I had made a point of being quite direct that night, giving her instruction. “Dinner now girl” and “good girl” and so on.
My girl cleared up the dishes. “Sit down in here please girl” I ordered as he/she was stacking the dishwasher. “Now!”
My girl came in sheepishly and sat down.
“I”ve been thinking my pretty girl”, I said. “I love to see you in skirts and dresses. I think they suit you and you are so much more gentle and compliant. And it makes me so hot”.
“Thank you Lady A”, said my girl.
“So I’ve made a decision and I want you to follow this. I don’t ask for much but this you will do.”
“Ok anything Lady A”
“From now on you will wear only skirts and dresses. No more trousers unless necessary. You obviously have to wear trousers outside the house, to work and if someone comes round but otherwise you WILL wear skirts and dresses only. If you have to wear trousers such as for work, you will wear knickers underneath. When you pick me up at night in the car from work or a night out you will do so in a skirt or a dress. This is not negotiable. It’s a rule”.
He stared at her. “I’m not sure that’s practical”
“I don’t care, you will make it work. Mission completed.
Step 20 clearing up loose ends
There are still a few things I have to do to complete the transformation. One is her girlie husband’s hair. As a man in his 50s, his hair is a bit thinner than it used to be. She has made him grow it a bit longer to take hair clips with pink bows, an Alice Band and a small pony tail but in reality a wig is going to be needed.
Another change in the planning is pierced ears. This one is tricky as the holes will be obvious to people and he does have to go to work. I have bought him some clip-ons but my real wish is for him to have proper pierced ears and feminine earrings but so far a solution eludes me unless I just goes for it.
Yet another change I’d like is to get my girlie husband waxed at a beauty salon by a female beauty therapist. I would just love to see a female waxing his pubic hair into a little triangle and then doing his pussy and legs completely. This is a big step as she doesn’t know how the salon would react. More thought needed here too.