A couple of months ago I spotted a couple in a supermarket and they looked quite normal until she clicked her finders at him and then moved her index finger to to tell him to come over to her. She then told him off quietly but firmly that she expected him to come to her much quicker and she’d punish him when they got home. He looked down at the ground in front of her.
From this time I realised that in every day life I can now speak to my girlie like this and to refer to my girlie as a female outside the home. I call her good girl and so on. Most people don’t seem to even notice as they are busy getting on with their own lives. I will also tell her she’s a bad girl when she hasn’t followed my instructions properly. I can also get her to do things such as carrying my things obviously, including my handbag, and getting things for me in shops or coffee shops. For example in a clothes shop I get her to pick up items of clothing for me with “be a good girl and pass me that” or in a coffee shop, “be a good girl and get me an Americano” and so on.
So I think the time is right to give her a new female name, especially with her nice new nails. I did used to call her Cindy but in the end I didn’t really think it was suitable so I have resisted up to now as I have enjoyed the anonymity of just calling her ‘girl’. Now I have started to always refer to her in the female form outside the home as well I realise it would be really satisfying to use a female name. I need to think exactly what and I have some ideas but I’ll announce it here when I’ve decided.
This is an exciting thought for me I can’t wait to use her new name outside the home.