We’ve come a long way in our lifestyle over the past 3 years but what’s next? I’ve been thinking about what more there is to do and what I’d like to happen. My girlie husband Alice thinks we’ve probably come to a natural limit on her feminisation and my domination of the relationship. She did think this before many times and look where we are now…
I however, disagree with her and I believe that there is still a lot more to do. We have discussed this between us of course but I have told her that although the timescale might be a little in the future, a further increase in her feminisation and my domination is going to happen. These are what we discussed and what I’ve told Alice will happen, sooner or later:
1. Pierced ears. I’ve already written about this as I’m very very keen on this idea. Clips-on earrings are just not the real deal. Alice doesn’t want to although likes the idea hypothetically. However she says it’s not practical in real life as people will notice the holes even when she is not wearing them. I told her that people won’t see the holes as she’ll have earrings in them. Cue a look of horror. Very very amusing.
2. A wig. I really want her to look like a girl not a man in female clothes so this is necessary. I’d also like to see her sometimes with a cute pony tail or a pink hair band, hair clips or maybe big pink bows in her hair. The wig is really important now. Alice accepted this and it was not a big debating point.
3. Bigger boobs. I just love her feminine looking breast but I now want them VERY big so we’ll be looking on line for larger falsies. Again no real problem. She wears a bra outside the house which isn’t filled…yet.
4. Cock cage or in her case a clitty cage. I like the idea of the control and Alice understands this is necessary and I can unlock it anytime I want to play or get pleasure.
5. CBT. I enjoy slapping her clitty stick a lot but I want to ‘play’ a whole lot more. I think her clitty needs much more humiliation. I really enjoyed decorating it the other week and making her spend the evening with no skirt or knickers and although that was a punishment, I think this needs to happen a little more often as normal. A little bit of physical ‘discomfort’ in this region would not go amiss in my opinion, I saw some slaves with clothes pegs and weights on their cocks and balls which were also tied up very tight when I went to the dungeon. I’ve already started being quite a bit rougher and although Alice complains a little while I’m playing with her clitty, this will increase. She didn’t really raise any concerns beyond asking me to be careful.
6. Introduce Alice to my female friends for an evening or weekend dressed as a girl and or naked/semi naked. I’m still not sure how to go about this yet or which of my friends would be interested. Alice has known that I’ve wanted to do for a while and this is a matter of time and is not for debate. She accepted it but is worried.
7. Names. She is Alice inside and outside the home and referred to as a girl. She can only call me Lady A, my Lady or Mistress. Alice is very uncomfortable about this outside the home but I ignore her complaints and enjoy her squirming when I call out ‘Alice’ or ‘come here girl’ in public.
8. All female clothing. Start the switch to female clothing outside the home. Obviously she always wears knickers and usually a bra under her top and stockings or tights under her trousers. She will now have female jeans and trousers (to start with 🙂 ) and blouses to replace shirts and flat female shoes. Alice has reluctantly accepted the move into an all female wardrobe outside the home.
9. Skirts and dresses outside the home. I really do need to get her into skirts and dresses outside the home at some time in the future. I accept it won’t be possible all the time but I really want it on some occasions. My girlie husband is extremely worried about this stage and is refusing to consider it . I’ve punished her for arguing but I’ve told her that we will get there eventually so start to think about it.
Girlie husband has accepted that she’ll be wearing feminine clothes outside as in point 8. I do sometimes get her to collect me in the car in a skirt and I’ll get her to wear a skirt more and more while driving. She seems to accept this. I’m also going to start to get her to go into the garden in the darker evenings in a skirt or dress to get used to being outside more. We will be driving out to some quiet place to go for a walk in her skirt or dress. Small steps at first but progress over the past 3 years would suggest that eventually she will get used to it no matter what she says and I will get what I want.
I can’t wait to get started on the plan.