After our chat last week about my girlie husband Alice’s concerns, her ongoing feminisation has actually increased! No I didn’t quite expect it quite so much either. I admit my strategy was to allow Alice a couple of concessions in return for some blocking points. That way I move things along, she gets used to them and then I can return to the things I allowed and start pushing again. So what’s happened?
Well I agreed not to make her go to a place to have her nails done which she found quite humiliating (that was the point for me but never mind for now). In return a lady will be coming to the house to do both mine and Alice’s nails nails next Wednesday. Alice will have bright pink toe nails but clear lacquer finger nails. That was the agreement. The lady also does pierced ears and this will also happen next Wednesday for Alice. She’s now worried but that was the agreement. I said we can remove her earrings and cover and fill the holes with make-up if we are with family or something. I’m not really sure whether that will cover them or not but it’s calmed Alice down a little.
The other big change is in calling her ‘Alice’ and ‘girl’ all the time. I agreed not to shout it out loud outside the house but we agreed that in normal conversation at any time anywhere she is ‘Alice’, ‘girl’ and ‘her’. So we went to the supermarket and I used ‘be a good girl and pick up some apples” as we we walking round and “What do you think Alice?” about some product and so on. We went for a coffee another day and she brought the coffee to the table I said “thanks beautiful” and when she sat down I told her “you’re looking pretty today Alice”. She agreed this and so I did it. To be honest I overdid it but it was necessary.