Forced feminisation in my world


Our first public showing at the event the other week was such as big event for us that I haven’t yet added anything in regards to Alice’s feminisation beyond the reintroduction of regular curtsying and wearing a skirt in the car.

I have reflected on the idea of Alice’s feminisation, which as regular readers know, I prefer to call ‘encouraged’ feminisation. This is because Alice does enjoy being feminised as part of our game but I have had to ‘encourage’ her to be feminised all the time 🙂 and in this she is probably a little more reluctant.

I have been thinking about her clothing. I saw many feminised males in quite sissy clothes which was lovely. However I am really sure that I want Alice to continue to wear normal everyday female skirts and dresses just like any real girl. Of course I like her in nice short pleated skirts and ra-ra type girlie skirts and little summer dresses but I think I’m going to make a change of wardrobe for her; I think I need to upgrade the quality and style a little. What I mean is at the moment Alice has male clothing to go out in and female clothing for the home (and car and events). I want her female clothing to now be much better quality and a wider range than her ‘going out’ clothing so that Alice feels really nice and feminine and really wants to wear them all the time rather than those nasty male trousers she has to put on to go out the house.

Also yet again I will be trying to get her to lose a little weight and to look like these photos. There could be a time when she’s so feminine it won’t matter and no one will notice.

And then eventually like this

mmm lovely this is what I want.

 

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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29 Responses to Forced feminisation in my world

  1. jen smith says:

    I love the styles you have picked out for Alice – very cute and sexy!

    Are you thinking of having her go out into more public settings in women’s clothes? Maybe drop her off in the car at one end of a park and pick he up at the other end?

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello Jen. Yes I am thinking of more public settings but without causing a problem of course. I love your car park idea. I can see her face now when I do it.

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  2. Lady A says:

    When now being the word

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  3. corsetjane says:

    What a lovely journey both You and alice are on… love the outfit ideas… enjoy….:-)

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Jane, the journey continues!

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      • shelby says:

        Every new step is an experimentation and the success of Alice in her feminised avatar must be such a pleasurable sight and feeling for you Lady A..I Wish you two all the best in the journey..I have also started in a small way my journey towards feminisation and I do hope I succeed. Your initial advice and encouragement when I was dithering because of age was every helpful and put me on the track and am now taking steps one by one. Best regards and curtesys Lady A.

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      • Lady A says:

        I’m pleased my advice was helpful Shelby

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  4. Lesley says:

    Best of luck in your continuing efforts to “encourage” Alice to appear in public more. If I may suggest, and speaking from experience, I think you should initially take him out wearing rather more conservative outfits until you and he are confident enough to attempt something a little more eye-catching. Nice, knee length skirts and dresses in quiet locations is the best start point I feel. The car park idea is a good one, also getting him out of the car to withdraw cash from an ATM has worked for me. Keep up the good work, don’t spoil it by taking too big a step.

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    • Lady A says:

      Thanks Lesley. She does go out in the car in dark skirts but she doesn’t have much that is knee length. I’ll need to buy her a nice plain black skirt for this purpose. I will try the car park once she has her new black skirt and I do like the cash point idea. I’m also trying to think of other quiet places I could take her to walk in her female clothing to get her used to it. Maybe a little village or town high street late at night outside London?

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  5. Veronica says:

    If I may make a suggestion, put Alice into some sheer nylon knickers and I think you will have very satisfactory results. There are two lingerie makers on Etsy who make 50s style sheer knickers, catering to both the sissy and burlesque/retro buyer. There are styles that are very very feminine but not sissy looking. At first Alice may resist but once she feels the nylon constantly moving against her….it’s a very seductive feeling. Plus she is on full display visually. It’s very easy to get addicted to the feeling and look and want more and more feminine garments. Two I recommend are SewSissy Lingerie and A Glimpse Of Stocking.

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  6. Lady A says:

    Thank you Veronica. I looked on line and they are wonderful. Unfortunately Alice can’t wear nylon against her bits as she comes out in a rash however I saw plenty of crotchless knickers which I think would be the answer and of course she would be even more on display visually.Thank you for the suggestion I’m going to look for the most feminine crotchless version. Lady A

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    • Veronica says:

      I’m very happy to help Lady A. I’m sure Alice will look very fetching. The pink items from both of them are terribly feminine in colour and may have the added effect of making Alice feel very confronted in her feelings of femininity. I’ve been told that the satin knickers also feel extraordinary to wear, but personally I like to see a girl properly displayed.

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  7. shelby says:

    Lady A, I really want to share the little progress I made. Nothing compared to the monumental progress of Alice but still satisfying enough for me. As I mentioned earlier also, I have become totally submissive to my wife and she too has trained me so well that I have become a good housekeeper . My progress was put to test last week when a firend of hers visited .She came on Friday night and left on Saturday evening.I know her friend since I and my wife married but was never in this role but I didnt feel uncomfortable . My wife told me in advance that I was not to speak till spoken to and not to sit with them unless they asked me to.I was dressed as a man only but my role was of a housekeeper really. Right from the time they came and I removed their shoes and stowed them away ,brought them drinks , stood before them while they chatted for any orders or instructions, then prepared dinner(except one dish which my wife prepared it was a very complete effort otherwise) served them dinner and waited for them to finish, washed the dishes, My wife and her friend took our bedroom and I took the couch in the living room.My wife called me for massaging her legs and also asked me to massage her friends legs for a few minutes. I also had to run the washing machine and dryer and later on iron and fold them neatly the next day.Next days breakfast and lunch (here again wife helped a little) . Her friend was very impressed and while leaving she told my wife that i was an excellent housekeeper. My wife also later appreciated my work and she told me she would be giving more exposure. She has not indicated to feminise me in dress but definitely handing over the traditional feminine chores.. I am very happy personally and it gives me great satisfaction. I am also now wearing panties (without my wife knowledge so far) and feel wonderful in them.. Will be keeping you updated Lady A…..with curtesys Shelby

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    • Lady A says:

      I’m pleased to hear about your progress. Knickers are a good start and I would suggest you think about wearing nighties to bed next. It’s a big step for your wife to accept you in dresses so go slowly

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      • Shelby says:

        thanks very much Lady A ..This is a very helpful advice… I wont rush ..and i would definitely think of nighties..i will start wearing ladies socks too..take these baby steps..at least i m moving well into a FLR now . Feminisation also may come soon..Thanks Lady A.. curtseys Shelby

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  8. Karen says:

    In relation to Alice appearing more feminine in public have you tried her in female trousers and blouses whilst out and about.
    My wife has slowly substituted my male trousers and shirts for female jeans , trousers and shirts. I have found wearing them in public an exciting alternative to my skirts and dresses that I am obliged to wear at home. Knowing that the trousers sit a little lower and are a bit tighter then my old male trousers makes me aware of what I am wearing. My shirts have the buttons on the “wrong side” they are also lighter then my male shirts. I do feel deliciously on edge and I am sure that there are eagle eyed ladies out there that have looked twice and seen me blush. Or is it just my imagination my wife tells me not to be so silly and that no one notices ….

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello Karen, I did start doing this but it fizzled out. I think I need to re-start this. The problem was that Alice is tall and long and the trousers were too short in the leg and the blouse sleeves were far too short. However I do want to get her to wear all female clothing all the time and this is the next step. I need to get Alice some female trousers and blouses and find some larger lengths as I think this is the next big step. Women always notice things, in fact when I got Alice to wear her hair a little longer with a bit of a ‘style’ lots of women commented on how nice it looked.

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      • Karen says:

        I too had this problem being over 6ft meant that women’s trousers and tops were always a bit too short. My wife then found that ( if I can name drop) the next and gap tall range proved a solution. She has since swapped most of my male trousers and shirts. I am left a few male items for family occasions only.
        What I have found is that I now find it very hard to back out of my position as a feminised husband. My wardrobe Is pretty much all female attire now and this has made my choice of attire out of my control. I must applaud yours and Alice’s journey and thank you both for sharing your experiences.

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      • Lady A says:

        Thank you Karen. I hadn’t thought about Gap and Next for women as I don’t shop there for my clothing. However Alice liked it for male clothing for that very reason and I hadn’t thought.This will work for her.

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  9. corsetjane says:

    What a shame Alice cant wear nylon against her bits… (thanks for the tip on Etsy Veronica, by the way). Hopefully she can wear nice fully fashioned nylons on her legs.. and how about some lovely satin french knickers to go with them (you did say something about upgrading her quality of dress LadyA) .. if its femininity she needs..you cant beat the feel of the soft touch of nylons as you walk…and she would also have to keep them looking immaculate…especially if seamed…;-)
    (the Nylonz website has some delightful choices of vintage fashion wear i think you’ll find)
    cj 🙂

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  10. Shelby says:

    Lady A my wife has indicated that this weekend again she will get visitors this weekend and i will have to be a good housekeeper. This weekend that is on Friday evening my wife is bringing her mother and her aunt and they will stay for two days leaving on Sunday.Now it seems my wife’s confidence has increased in me she has left all the cooking to me. I have good relations with both my mother-in-law and her sister.My mother-in-law would be around 67 or so and her younger sister who is much younger than me would be around 5 yrs or so older than me,I am also comfortable with both of them. I am glad my wife is exposing our flr to women with whom i am comfortable. How i should conduct myself, what i should wear , what all i should do to serve them to their satisfaction my wife would brief me… I hope everything goes of well.. Shall keep u updated Lady A

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    • Lady A says:

      Be respectful and wear a very feminine apron – all evening.

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      • Shelby says:

        Thanks for the tip Lady A. U know my wife had bought two aprons new ones.. just today one bright yellow with patterns and another lil darker pink with flower pattern. I was actually shy of choosing the flower pattern but after u have advised i will wear the pink flower patterned .it is definitely feminine. maybe, her mother and aunt may influence. my wife to feminise me in some way.u know i am still working. at work not much changes..except for the knickers and socks. but yes i m speaking much softly, moving more delicately and spending more time with ladies than men.i am now taking an interest in the ladies household work, children and find that they have begun opening up more with me and talking freely with me . As regards my mother-in-law and aunts visit my wife has told me that i will be wearing shorts and t-shirts.color she has left for me.. i am choosing a bright t-shirt and chocolate colored shorts. Apron would be pink flower patterned. As earlier i m not to speak till spoken to, should do whatever my wife asks me to or the ladies wish me to. My duties would consist of helping them to get relaxed when they come, serving some refreshments, be in attendance then dinner, then again be in attendance, then wash and dry the clothes if any and ensure that all are kept neatly folded by next morning. then bed tea, breakfast, preparing the bath , preparing lunch , serving them and so on.
        I will be very respectful as u advised and would wear the feminine apron.
        curtseys Lady A- Shelby

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  11. shelby says:

    Lady A my apologies for the delay in getting back. My wife’s mother and aunt visited and as you told me i wore the most feminine apron I have – pink flower patterned apron.. My wife’s mommy and aunt came and I was at my respectful best.. It seems my wife already gave some indication of what to expect.. They were happy at my helping them out with their shoes when they came and when they were settling down I brought them drinks.I was silently standing in with head bowed and answered when asked something. I laid out the dinner table and served them to their satisfaction. Then while they relaxed I removed the dishes and cleared the table. My wife wanted me to massage her legs and feet and definitely her mom and aunt were happy at the way i served my wife. Her mom too wanted me to massage her legs and feet. Then my wife asked me to comb her aunt’s hair . In the night i guided the ladies to their room and made their beds. In fact my wife’s mother told me number of times that i had learned very well and she was happy for both of us. After they left my wife told me that her mother had asked for both hers and my help for managing a get together at her house next month. but my wife told that although she would be going she felt i was not ready for it. She asked what did i think. I told her that I had full faith in whatever my decides for me and i also feel that she is very sensibly shaping me up. I have fully shaved myself below the neck and feel so pretty and clean. I already feel like a woman inside me though i am still dressing up like a man, – Shelby

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  12. shelby says:

    Lady A my life has really transformed since I submitted totally to my wife. I am dressing as a man generally but those little shifts have been made ..which have moved me to be like a female..i am totally shaven now ..just left below the knees….i use a ladys moisturiser,female beauty soaps, kinckers, ladys socks tho slightly on the sober side..sit move talk like a girl softly and in a low voice, sit and pee.I do the entire housekeeping the traditionally ‘female’ jobs of cooking , washing , cleaning all done by me and i hope all men should take these up and serve the superior women. I wear bright feminine touch aprons, serve on my wife’s relatives and friend(not many tho)..massage her legs arms and wherever she wants.. occasionally comb her hair…keep things ready for her bath. i m generally wearing a t-shirt and shorts or jeans at home they r mens only but my movement has been steady towards feminity.
    I always wanted to be a woman’s girl and i feel now i really am becoming – leave the dress part but otherwise i feel a female..she is slowly taking up the traditional man’s role.i am giving my entire monthly earnings to her ..though she lets me keep 20% of it.I am very happy with the way things r moving.

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    • Lady A says:

      It’s very good to hear this Shelby, I think the time is right to move to wearing a skirt at home. Make it something plain and simple to start with.

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  13. Deb says:

    Wearing pleated skirts and dresses is all part of my feminisation …..I feel so wonderfully femme …. my estrogen levels are higher now thanks to mistress giving me sweeties and my boobs are coming along nicely . I also listen to feminising hypnosis on you tube and find it a great help.

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