Real forced feminisation

My posts have been a little less often these past couple of weeks following the Femdom event. Apart from being quite busy, I wanted to reflect a little on the next steps. Plus Alice is quite feminised at home and we were just living an otherwise normal life and things are great. However, my brain has been in overdrive and what I want to do next will probably see some resistance from Alice which is why, although I’m normally gentle with her, I think a little bit of a stronger forced feminisation period will be needed this time. It has worked in the past on the odd occasions so as a short term tactic I think it will have a longer term benefit for us both.

Firstly, I had started thinking about a change of Alice’s female clothing; an upgrade. This will still happen but my ideas are crystalising, largely thanks to comments by readers to my blog. I am now more certain than ever that I want Alice feminised for the maximum amount of time possible. This means wearing female clothing outside the home too. Now I’ve thought about this in the past and done it a little but not really made it happen permanently. The answer is clearly to buy female trousers and blouses in a larger size that are sort of unisex. A problem in the past has been that Alice is tall and long and the legs and sleeves have been far too short. I’ve been told that some major shopping chains now do tall sizes with extra length and chest sizes. I think this is the answer.

It’s going to be a little expensive to change Alice’s wardrobe out entirely but it now has to happen. I’ll leave one or two male items for occasions where it is absolutely necessary otherwise the time is right for the change.

Secondly, I loved Alice being out in a skirt at the Femdom event and I want her out more often. I’ve made her do this on occasions but not enough. I’m going to take up some suggestions about making her step out of the car to get money from cash points at night in a dress/skirt and to walk across car parks at night in her dress. I’m going to also try to think of places to go for a late night walk with her feminised. This is a good first step to normalising her feminisation outside the home combined with the female trousers/blouse idea.

Thirdly, Alice has been slacking in the bra department and now she’s going to have to wear one ALL the time. In fact now it’s a little colder and she has more clothing on, she can wear her breast forms outside regularly too.

Finally I’ve had some great ideas about extremely feminised knickers. This got me thinking about the fact I usually prefer Alice to be ‘displayed’ i.e. her clitty uncovered. Not having any knickers is ok but not very feminine. So I’m going to upgrade her knickers collection to mainly crotchless and extremely frilly and mainly pink or white. I’m already excited at the prospect.

So a lot to be going on with and a lot of online shopping to do.




About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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15 Responses to Real forced feminisation

  1. Karen says:

    I am sure you and Alice will have fun transforming her wardrobe one thing my wife did was to ensure every time I got a new piece of feminine clothing 1 male piece was exchanged and put in the charity bag. I can still remember the day when that full bag of male clothes was left on the doorstep never to be seen again… This made it difficult for me to become lazy and not wear my new clothes as the choice of male clothes became smaller and smaller. Eventually I got to the stage where choosing my outfits become a daily occurrence as my choices grew.
    Another area my wife utilised was to send me to the gym dressed in women’s fitness wear this helped me lose weight as well as get used to the idea of wearing female / unisex clothes in public. The sports bra formed the foundation of the outfit and was a challenge to keep it hidden from view.
    Regarding bra wearing to ensure I wore a bra during the day I was punished if I “forgot” to put it on that day by being made to sleep in a bra that night. As most women know the bra is not the most comfortablist item to sleep in. After a few nights It became routine to put on a bra every morning and wear it through the day. I now look forward to the pleasure felt every evening of taking my bra off and pulling on my nightie.


    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Karen, yes I’m looking forward to the clothing transformation. I can be busy at times and I think Alice takes advantage and ‘forgets’ to wear her bra. Thanks for the reminder I’ll keep a check,


  2. maidsally69 says:

    All sounds wonderful to me Mistress. Although not to sure about trousers however feminine they are.
    In my very humble opinion the feminised male should always be in a dress or skirt with lots of nylon clad leg on display.
    I think the fem Dom event you went to may have been in West Bromwich which is very close to me.
    If the hotel you stayed at was in Great Barr that would have been even closer.

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes I really do want Alice to wear only dresses and skirts. I really don’t like her in any kind of trousers. The problem is that for the outside world appearances I unfortunately have to allow it. And yes the event was in West Brom. I can’t remember where we stayed but it was by a roundabout about 3 miles away.


  3. Lesley says:

    Go for it Lady A !! You will need to be very firm with him when the times come for his first steps out of the car – I don’t imagine you will have a problem with that. By the way I gree with Sally about keeping him in skirts and dresses. Can’t wait to hear about his first venture out of the car. Your blog is excellent.


    • Lady A says:

      I’m so pleased you think my blog is excellent, thank you for saying so. As for the steps out of the car in a skirt although I generally enjoy having a harmonious relationship, there are times I have to be firm and this will be one of them.


  4. maggie says:

    Hi LadyA, I am happy to share progress on several fronts with my girlie. Her waist has come down by an inch. I continue the corset regime as my target is still far away. She has come up with the suggestions for her new name. Since she took an extra week for suggesting the names I am keeping her in suspence on my choice. Meanwhile I embarrass her by using terms like fairy, dollie, even lassie. She blushes when I call aloud in public, but responds to me with a weak smile. At home I made some major changes. Her study has now been converted into her boudoir. The walls are pastel purple. The study table is now an ironing table. There is a small wash area where she now hand washes and dries my lingerie. I have left space for a sewing machine and have told her to be prepared to take sewing, knitting and embroidery lessons. There is a big nice sofa exclusively for me and a small footstoll for her to sit. The TV is restricted to cooking, housekeeping, and other homemaking channels. The boudoir also has a place for her to carefully store all my punishment tools like belt, can’t, strap and brush.I want her to start living and thinking like a good obedient housewife.

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    • Lady A says:

      Oh how I recognise the weak smile, I get the same from Alice when I call her ‘good girl’ or ‘Alice’ in public. It’s lovely to hear how feminine you’re making your girlie, I really hadn’t thought about all those other touches. More ideas to think about, thank you.


  5. corsetjane says:

    Lady A… amazing progress here..i just love reading it, although as before, i feel for Alice as she sees the future path developing and a new turn of the screw… The thrill of witnessing directly the fine line between excitement/fun, and terror at discovery with gentle humiliation is quite exquisite…i just hope she realises how lucky she is to have such an outgoing, inventive and adventurous Mistress. Love the blog… look forward to every entry. Thank you… curtsy.
    cj πŸ™‚


  6. corsetjane says:

    PS… the comment above re corsets…now that would be a lovely thing to see… i love the restrictive feel of them…but more importantly the amazing effect it can have on the figure…i’m sure that Alice would warm to a corset regime in order to improve her body image…after all we all strive to please..look our best..and get compliments…its a gurly thing. What better way than a corset to reach that goal…?


    • Lady A says:

      Hello Jane.Yes it’s going well. I’ve resisted the corset idea so far as I want Alice to lose weight and achieve a slimline female body shape that way. That said although slim, she’s still not slim enough so I may have to revert to the corset eventually.


      • corsetjane says:

        Thanks for you reply Lady A. Sounds perfect…a two pronged attack seems best πŸ˜‰ As soon as i started in chastity and my femme feelings took over, i just wanted to lose weight to improve my figure.. and lost 9Kg with a bit of exercise and a 5:2 diet (which is much easier than many think). i can’t begin to tell you the sense of achievement and excitement when you realise that you can get into a corset 2″…then 4″ less than you started with…i’m sure that Alice would love the challenge….and resulting figure – it gives a real end point to aim for..not just a weight but a visual and sensuous one.. Either way i am sure that you will succeed in getting her in shape for her more public appearances…
        cj πŸ™‚


  7. sissymaidsue says:

    loving the blog Lady A ,all-ways think yellow’s is a good sissy colour


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