In my previous post that I said I was going into a period of consolidation of Alice’s feminisation. I spoke with Alice about this and she was quite pleased. So consolidation it is but that means getting used to it and making her feminisation a completely normal thing.
Alice now wears a bra all the time at home and very often outside. On Sunday I decided that consolidation involves permanently wearing a bra at all times, not just very often outside the home. I told Alice that as she had agreed with consolidation then we have to take this permanent step. Permanent bra. At all times.
That actually went fine and apart from a little moan she accepted that this is what consolidation is and she’d agreed to it so that’s that. Except it wasn’t quite it. Once we’d agreed this step I then pointed out that Alice didn’t always wear her breast forms around the house and to make wearing a bra worthwhile and to look like a proper girl shouldn’t she wear breast forms all the time at home? Alice sort of mumbled “Well…I don’t know…I do wear a bra, …don’t I…the breast forms aren’t really necessary all the time…..are they?” I looked at her and kissed her sweet face. “But it’s a waste of time not filling out your bra and the forms make you look so feminine and I really love you looking feminine and pretty.” Alice just looked at me and sort of knew what was coming. “Consolidation is about you being a girl and looking pretty”. I told her I wasn’t pushing anything new we were just consolidating where we were with her femininity. I told her she wears breast forms regularly so let’s consolidate things and why not wear them at home all the time. It’s just like her putting on her knickers and bra, no different. Plus I told her how much more attractive she was with her filled out bra.
Alice accepted it made sense and we have consolidated on her wearing a bra at all times and wearing breast forms in the house at all times. Was I finished here? No not quite.
Following out lovely little chat about bras and breasts, we wanted to go out for a relaxing coffee in a local coffee shop. as is our Sunday morning habit. Alice went to remove the breast forms. I put my hand across her arm. I gently asked her not to remove her breasts. No one will notice under her jacket. Alice looked worried but did it. OK she didn’t remove her jacket in the shop but she did undo it and I could see the bumps inside and very slightly through the jacket when we were walking. Of course if she can wear her breasts outside occasionally, then why not all the time? I didn’t say that; just thought it.
I’m enjoying this consolidation period more than I thought I would.
Ladiesontop by Lady Alexa 
Consolidation is good for her Mistress
It will encourage her to adjust her gait especially with the breast forms.
Curtsey
Sally
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Yes Sally, before we go any further she does need to be a bit more feminine at times and this period will certainly help her. To be honest it will help her accept and get used to her newish role in life as a girl.
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So subtle…so logical….so convincing…so erotic…. i love consolidation!!!
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Yes I was a little worried but I think it’s for the best. I think she’ll really benefit from concentrating on how to be a girl
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For many gurls, feminisation is even more mental than physical. It is impossible for a gurl to act macho when she’s wearing her bra and panties, so the subtle but pervasive conditioning of consolidation will work it’s subtle magic step by mincing step!
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Hello trisneill exactly. All Alice’s previous macho ways disappeared once she was in a little pleated skirt
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Dear Lady A,
I am loving and very much admiring your consolidation concept.
Your relationship seems to get ever more beautiful between you. Increasing her time in breast form is a fabulous improvement, Oh sorry, I mean consolidation….. This will surely increase Alice’s confidence and belief in her ability to blend in when en femme. Maybe you’ve already thought it but her breast forms could be worn quite “safely” in the car too !
It would be interesting to see a couple of photo’s of just Alice’s body form as she went out for coffee and dressed as you “will” be going out with her again soon.
Much love and jealousy
melissa xx
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Are you psychic melissa? Alice picks me up from the tube station when I’m late home from work and indeed last night she was wearing her breast forms as I had told her. to do And in a nice dress too of course, although of course her jacket disguised this from anyone looking in to the car. It was a pleasure for me though once in the car to see her obvious breasts and stockined legs while she was driving me home.
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Hello Lady A,
Delighted that you are getting Alice to pick you up from the station “en femme”, I do this with Penelope and its great fun. A while ago we were discussing ideas for getting Alice out of her comfort zone in the car and into some more fun situations where there is the chance of him being seen by others. Have you tried this out yet? Believe me you can have a great time getting him to leave the car for a short walk to an ATM or post box in a quiet area – just one small step for Alice but a giant step forward for you! Love the blog.
Keep up the good work, Lesley
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No I haven’t tried it yet but it’s most definitely in my plans. I’ll do a post when it happens and I’m thinking of taking a photo too
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Hi Lady A
I’ve just read your whole blog & would like to make a few comments to Alice, if I may.
I’m a hetero professional in my 50s in a loving & committed marriage, which is very vanilla, & I fantasise about my wife taking charge & feminising me, even to the point of growing breasts – but at the same time still having a fully functioning dick (sorry, I’m not feminised enough to call my own a clitty) – because I couldn’t be bothered to do it to myself, but would love to be pushed, one small exciting step at a time.
I worked in London for a number of years, and encountered a variety of professional men with pierced ears, ponytails, non-masculine clothing – and for everyone else it was NO BIG DEAL. Really! I have pierced ears myself from before I was married and apart from some amused comments from my mother at the time no-one (not even my conservative father) has ever thought it inappropriate to my profession. So please, Alice, get over it and get your ears pierced – of your own accord. Man up – sorry, gurl up – get yourself over to a place that does it, and just do it. Think of it as a present to Lady A. The girl (it’ll probably be a real girl – sigh) who does it might make a few jokey comments, but will otherwise be unfazed. It’s the 21st century & you live in London for goodness sake! You don’t even need a cover story, but you can always say that some of your friends have had their ears pierced and you think it looks cool. As I say, I’m 100% hetero, and I think it looks cool for a guy to have pierced ears.
Anyway, back to Lady A. Intriguing blog, but if you could just change your spelling of a leash for Alice’s clitty – it makes it sound like you want to put a leech on it! (Shudder)
I hope you can move on from the piercing issue soon, Ffled
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Thank you for your comments and I will pass on your advise about Alice’s ears. I did make the same point myself but maybe from someone else it will have more effect. The problem for Alice is that she didn’t really have the fantasy of feminisation but just enjoyed it as a game which I found I love as a lifestyle so I am easing Alice into it to make her comfortable.I think she’d be fine with pierced ears now but she did use to be a very conservative straight-laced male so is worried that any sudden change will be embarrassing for her with her friends and family. I’m therefore making gradual changes to her external look so when that step comes it will be more accepted by them.
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Oh and thanks for pointing out the spelling error. I usually write these posts quickly in a few spare moments, sometimes on an iphone, so my first attempts do sometimes have typos which I’ll correct when I have a little more time.
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Lady A
I accept your point about feminisation not being originally Alice’s fantasy & Alice’s concerns about friends & family. Just to reinforce my message to Alice I want to clarify 2 things:
I had my ears pierced just to be cool 30 years ago, but I only found out about the concept of feminisation about 5 years ago. My piercing had nothing to do with feminisation fantasies, so Alice’s family & friends don’t have to make that assumption if they see Alice’s piercings. (Just saying, though I acknowledge her trepidation.)
Secondly, Alice might not have had a feminisation fantasy, but you have done such a great job leading Alice down that path that she now wants it for herself – hence her alarm when you threatened to reverse the process. I think she just needs to acknowledge to herself that this is just one of the logical next steps. Alice – I realise that this is a really scary (but exciting!) step for you – all I can think is that it would make an amazing Xmas present for Lady A, because she knows what it would take for you to do it. I’m sure she would make it worth your while.
Ok – I’ve said my bit. I’ll back down. Best wishes to both of you, it sounds like you have an amazing thing going – Ffled.
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Lady A I read the consolidation relating to bra and breasts forms..yes wearing a bra and a filled up bra gives a sense of feminity which probably nothing else gives..it also influences the gait , the movements of the arms and make you feel so feminine.. I have done that in private but nothing greater satisfying than with a woman who wants you feminised…Alice is lucky she can wear breast forms all the time at home and on some occasions outside too…however i do believe she works somewhere…perhaps that could be the only exception…Best wishes to both of you and my curtseys Lady A.. Shelby
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Thanks Shelby. Alic works for a company but mostly from our home so no problem
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Good point how it influences the gait and arms.:) Always a reminder when bending over for housework, too! sara
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Lady A,
An amazing journal of your trek! This particular section on “the consolidation of feminization” particularly elicits questions on what you see ahead in re-defining and redesigning of your life and relationship. Surely a few short years ago you, and less your husband, must have envisioned the extent of change you now experience permanently. Even this ‘bra’ issue as explained seems to portend future evolution, and it would not surprise me to find you have it in the back of your mind the possibility those bra forms may find themselves being used at all times – private and public – as an eventuality you deem proper.
Your unfolding story of Female assumption of power and your husband’s feminization is a monumental tribute to re-establishing a more natural sex-role hierarchy between Females and males. Even though you cite ‘Alphas’ of both sexes, one intuits that, beneath it all, ultimately, you believe that the Female sex may emerge ascendant and in virtual total control – with a primarily corrected social order predominantly Female supremacist. And in that a predominantly re-assignation/reorientation/reversal of those “feminine” traits that were once forced on Females that constituted personality characteristics of weakness, meekness, obedient, subservience, delicate, submissive, etc.
In as much as just within the last 60-70 years a few small steps toward ‘level playing field’ has already reversed social and sexual roles so vastly, and with younger Females FAR outperforming males at ALL endeavors, can you envision an even more opposite structure of what the sexes were throughout all history in the past? Can you see (and as a personal preference, would you like to see?) in the future the Female Sex enjoying the vast balance of control over the male as you have begun and shall evidently increase?
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Thank you for your comment and points. Yes I do see a gradual change in the balance of power and I see myself as one of the vanguard. However, I think we have some way to go yet until the ‘promised land’ of female supremacy in all walks of life rather than in just my own and a few other’s personal domains. Regarding your comment of Alphas of both sexes, I feel that male alphas can be corrected and to some extent my husband is proof of this. Forcing males to wear female clothing ensures submissive and more delicate behaviour due to this type of clothing and also makes them more vulnerable due to the exposure of flesh and also the vulnerability of a short skirt for example. The opposite of power dressing.
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Thank you for your refreshing and forthright admittance of pride in taking some of the primary steps in advancing a Female oriented future society. Why more Women are reticent to place themselves in line with such intent seems somewhat a failure in realizing all that they can be. And if it is truly the case (as it well appears) the Female with all opportunity tending towards being leveled, far advances past male endeavor… THAT RESULTING TRUE SUPERIORITY would be the far more “natural” than the then proven FALSE male superior system kept viable only so long as the Female was hampered by extra societal restriction.
Could the frightening truth be for the male ego that it always sensed the weakness and then transferred nearly all so-called ‘feminine’ traits – meekness, submission, temerity, dependence – which were more likely his – unto the Female, so he surreptitiously kept control. Yes, there shall probably be a period of shamed, feminine embarrassment and repentance on the on the horizon for the once ‘manly’ sex, and perhaps a tad of victorious mirth on the growing psyche of Woman. However, that which remains after the initial cultural shock, will be the scenario which most benefits both sexes in their properly corrected roles, personalities, demeanor and yes even fashion of dress.
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It’s definitely the result of hundreds of years of societal conditioning. Again if I use Alice as a model, I’ve had to undo 50 odd years of conditioning and she now realises her true position. It can be done but women need to be re-educated too so that they can realise where they should be.
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Yes Females need enlightening to what their potential is in compare to the male’s. That is perhaps one of the great things Your actions may have in accelerating future conquest by Women. Be not timid in what you are doing and enjoy the victory that no man really can deny You. WELL DONE, Lady A.!
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