A new year, a new Alice


feminizationIt all starts from today, the new more feminine Alice is coming my way.

First off, her weight. So before anything else this morning, the weigh in. Nearly 13 stone (that’s 82 kilos in the rest of the world and 181 pounds for the USA – I looked these up on the internet 🙂 ). So to be fair to Alice, she hasn’t put on any extra weight over Christmas knowing this was coming. Her immediate target is to be at 12 stone (78 kilos, 168 pounds), quite a drop of 1 stone (16lbs) but necessary.

Second, the waist: 36 inches (91 cm – what would we do without the internet?). This is far too much. Her immediate target is 32 inches (81 cms).

I’m going to be generous and give her until the end of Feb to achieve these targets.

However, this time it will not be a case of telling her and then leaving it to her to achieve. No, I’ll be measuring her every day and charting her reduction and publishing it here on Ladiesontop. I will expect a drop of 2 pounds (about a kilo) every week. I will also expect a drop of around 1 inch in her waist every week. Any failure to hit these targets will result in more severe punishment than I’ve meted out before, not just physical, and an even stricter regime of dieting. Anything not achieved in one week will be made up for the end of the next week.

Alice seems quite happy to go along with my targets at the moment. We’ll see what problems I get when she fancies a glass of wine or a piece of chocolate cake.

I have a series of other progressive increases in Alice’s femininity for 2016 which I’ll tackle on the next post

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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37 Responses to A new year, a new Alice

  1. whyguys says:

    Lady A…

    You are swiftly becoming a beacon for Women adrift in a changing world. They, once wandering and wondering what to do with their growing realization of the power Females naturally hold and the insecurity and meekness males have secretly suspected in themselves for millennia.

    This is a brilliant tact! Alice shall more and more see herself as a member of the sex held under supervision… under restrictions placed upon her by the Superior Sex… and held to sever but loving repercussion for failure. This will turn out to be a benchmark in Alice’s self-image and awareness of what in general what a male’s identity truly is. Your implementing immediate and timely punishment for dalliance, resistance and/or any residual petulance or false ‘masculine’ ego.

    Your plan of Alice’s appropriate reorientation shall serve at least two immediate purposes. The first is of course the further establishment of what shall be the natural hierarchy of the sexes in your own sphere. The second, and more enduring will be the example you offer to other Females’ enlightenment to correcting the future true nature of human sexual dynamics — Female Primacy and male as obedient secondary helpmate.

    Victoria Female Vadum Permaneo Pro Infinitio

    Female Victory shall Be Eternal!

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    • Christina says:

      Lady A
      That is great news and glad that you decided to apply the what I had referenced in an earlier post to you with regard to Alice’s on going training as I had done with Michele and shared with you before.
      These are very aggressive goals you have to say the least that you have stated BUT obtainable perhaps? start with a pound a week and then vigorous exercise and variations so you will have her as she needs to be.
      I used the reminder of Michele needing to be in a swimsuit and a Bikini by mid summer. Again I will mention there is always additional reminders should she stumble and not obtain the required weekly goals,In addition to her bra that she wears daily, you could always exchange that for a long line( more uncomfortable perhaps) but needed as a reminder when the goals are not me,t daily Corset training perhaps additional and exercise in feminine leotards daily or more often as needed.I am happy to see your post, I should re institute this schedule with Michele as well, Thank you for the reminder.. good luck and Keep in touch, we do want our husbands feminized and Happy Girls, don’t we
      Christina

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      • Lady A says:

        Hello Christina and thank you for your idea, it was indeed you who inspired me to set up the regime. I think Alice can meet my aggressive schedule as she has a fast metabolism and has lost weight rapidly in the past. I didn’t mention that she is being enrolled in the gym too, I have the feeling I’d like her to go to aerobics classes. I was also quite taken with the idea of Alice in a bikini in the summer so this is in fact partly my motivation so thank you for that idea too. I really want her to have bikini lines. And we certainly do want our husbands as nicely feminised girlies. Lady A

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      • patti59 says:

        Christina, I LOVE the way that you think. ALL Males need to be dainty, thin and sweetly obedient to their women. I really think that Female Only Gyms need to recruit and encourage feminine males into their businesses. All males that join a Female only gym need to be required to appear ONLY in leotards and tights, and ONLY be allowed to do aerobic exercises…No Strength building for any male! Simultaneously, I think it would be awesome to see a Female only gym where many women are doing strength training to the point that they would be substantially stronger than any and all males present,,,that would really send a HUGE Ego Busting message to all the males!

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    • Lady A says:

      Well I certainly hope so. But if not at least in my house

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  2. corsetjane says:

    Thank you again Lady A for captivating your audience with another turn of the screw for Alice..
    i love the fact that the pressure will be on doubly as you are intending to chart her efforts regularly on here…for all to see.. So …come on Alice!…Go for it.. and fly the flag for us males who are happy to be directed by our superior female partners… lets see the pounds fall Alice… (i will be trying also to go in the same direction with weight and waist as i want to be able to get into a 26″ corset this year! Hopefully you can inspire me too!)
    May i take the opportunity to wish you both a Very Happy New Year…and thank you for your posts to date..and i look forward to whatever 2016 will bring to you… the start is already exciting….so things are looking good!
    cj 🙂

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Jane, a very Happy New Year to you too. We’re going for a 32 to start but that’s just a start. I need something sensible to aim for first

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      • whyguys says:

        What a precious idea, Lady A – TANLINES!

        SO CUTE AN IMAGE, and instructive as well. After it happens even when Alice may be nude and not be in required male feminine attire there is the constant reminder of the new identity being forged for her and her sex. What a stark lesson in the ways of the coming Gynarchy.

        Reminds me of a 1950’s song parody I once penned which had as one chorus line (and the day is coming when soon male chorus lines will perform delighting their Female onlookers! 😉 )

        Males must wear itsy bitsy teeny weeny
        Satin, silk and lace BIKINIS
        As ordered by the Females today…”

        Truly ahead of your time, Lady A… but the time is coming SOON!

        Have a Fantastic New Year… as I’m sure your plans shall succeed in doing so.

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  3. ~sadie says:

    Tell Alice that i will join her on her weight lose and report my weight once a week on Fridays.

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  4. ~sadie says:

    ops please correct the spelling of lose to weight loss, sighs

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  5. Christina says:

    Lady A
    Now that I reread your posts, again your doing a great Job with Alice, In fact I will re-institute a similar regime with my Michele. The winter clothes can be a bit forgiving BUT beginning of the year is the best time to get them ready for the summer. the constant reminder of Michele’s Tan lines this past winter was enough to keep her in line. You should have seen the look on her face last week for Christmas
    when she was given a new scale to measure her daily wt. Also she was” re enrolled” at her figure salon for daily aerobics sessions and given a couple of cute leotards and coordinating tights( no: Blue and Pink are not her favorites) but she does look cute in them, her hair is growing out some what and still needs her wigs and she knows any set back to the goals, she might not get to wear the wig to the salon and perhaps? longer nails and wear her leotard and tights to and from her salon visits might insure that she gets to my goals for her
    .Have to look into your idea of a plug for Michele but perhaps till then she can perhaps wear a tampon.. have to think about that, doubt? she will like that BUT obviouly she has no choice,as always Keep in touch Lady A and keep up the good work
    Happy New Year

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Christina although if you’re taking Michele out feminised then you’re way ahead of me at present. This is my goal of course. I like the idea of a leotard for Alice’s aerobics, I wonder how I can get her into one for the classes. Maybe under some shorts to start with with the top part showing? I don’t ask Alice to wear a tampon, I make her wear a sanitary towel every month instead. I’m not sure why but it gives me great pleasure firstly to buy them with her and then when it’s the right time of the month, I just love giving them to her and watching her put them in her knickers and wearing them.

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      • Christina says:

        Lady A
        Thank you for the reply, to suggest an answer to your question on how to introduce the leotards for Alice’s Aerobics classes, I did it this way with Michele, she was told to dress with bra with her breast forms and Panties then the leotard and tights over that,she wore oversized sweat type top and pants over that. the top had a couple buttons at the neck and I removed one initially so during her class it would shift around and the pink leotard would show, depending on how vigorous a class it was, wearing all those clothes( along with the breast forms and a bra) . many times it got so warm that she threw caution to the wind and removed the top or pants which would reveal the leotard or tights or both eventually( that was the original goal just took a lil longer to achieve) she seemed less cautious if she was wearing a wig which only added to increasing her body temperature during the class so all equaled a win combination
        I used the same strategy during her sun tanning, she said it got very warm with the wig so depending where she was laying she removed it and used a towel, after a while I gave her an option perhaps we will wash and set your hair in curlers and you can dry it in the sun at the same time, a really feminine look but one she opted for as it was cooler and “looked” more feminine which just pushed the goal that much faster, she doesn’t like sleeping in curlers BUT some times a Girl gota do what a Girl gota do I tell her so put them in and use the triangular net to secure them all
        I have taken Michele out and I have sent her on errands a few times all that helps keep then in line as you mentioned once Alice picks you up at the train station and a constant reminder of their vulnerability and Our Control.
        I think it might be a perfect time to have Michele count off her 28 day cycle on the calendar so she will know exactly when it will come, excellent idea and Thank you for that idea, one that,she wont be expecting this week
        hope that helps, Keep up the great work with Akice

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      • Lady A says:

        Yes a leotard is now on Alice’s shopping list. I’m really thinking of her using them in conjunction with female tracksuit bottoms at first and having the top of the leotard on show; a sort of billy Elliot look 🙂

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  6. Connie Amanda says:

    My girlfriend is also planning on giving me instructions to loose some weight,and she already told me that the wooden spoon will be part of what she will come up with.(after reading your answer previously)
    Looking at Alice’s weight I feel guilty because I am a bit heavier and my waist is also larger then hers.So there will be plenty of work to be done here.

    Wishing you and Alice all the best for the new year.

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    • Christina says:

      Connie A
      She should get you into a nice feminine shape and soon, perhaps share lady A’s ideas with your girlfriend to get you started
      remember summer clothes are more revealing so remember do as she tells you , keep us all posted on your progress

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    • Lady A says:

      Thanks Connie and it’s never too late to drop a dress size. I wish you luck in doing so. However punishment is part of the game so I’m pleased that your girlfriend has decided to do so. I hope she is reading this as I expect her to do maintenance punishment too until her objective is fulfilled

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      • Connie Amanda says:

        Thank you very much for making time for me.
        And yes my girlfriend read some postings on your blog here. She also told me that she will comment one day soon,I am looking forward to that although I don’t know under which name she will do so.
        I wrote that my measurements are bigger then Alice’s,but this is maybe because I am 1,87 M.On my bare feet that is ; )
        Don’t know Alice her length ?
        Yesterday my girlfriend measured me and she noted the measurements in her agenda.
        If I check my body mass index on the internet it seems that I am 4,58 kg to heavy,If my girlfriend comes up with a plan to loose that 5 kilo’s I think it will be very doable in my opinion.
        I hope to be right on that because she has not given me any pointers on how much and when.
        I will keep you informed on that,if you like.
        Kind regards from Belgium

        C.A.

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    • Christina says:

      Lady A
      Excellent way your planning for the leotard introduction at her aerobics class, Best of luck on all your endeavors with Alice

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  7. mmtdfg says:

    Thanks for providing inspiration and a plan to do this! I will join Alice in making 2016 my most femme year yet! Thanks again!

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  8. Lesley says:

    An excellent idea Lady A, and your goals for Alice seem very reasonable to me! I have done this with Penelope before and there is an added bonus for you that you may have already realised.. Alice, of course, will need some new clothes after losing the extra weight. This gives you a perfect opportunity to take your husband on a very humiliating shopping trip. Charity are perfect for this purpose and I always get a real kick out of watching him squirm delightfully as I insist on him trying on skirts or dresses in the shop and comment on them as he “models” for me. His humiliation is increased by the fact that, of course, he has been brought out wearing full undies beneath his male clothes and his stockings are very much on view for all to see when trying on a skirt or dress. I have also insisted on his bra being slightly padded for correct size when trying on tops or dresses, and this, too, becomes very obvious. to the shop assistants or other customers. So you can “reward” Alice with some new clothes for achieving his goals – I guarantee that you will enjoy the reward more than him!

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    • Lady A says:

      I have had a plan for sometime Lesley to upgrade Alice’s wardrobe and as you guessed, this will be a great opportunity and excuse. I really want her to try the female clothing on in a shop. My only concern is in bringing in innocent shop workers into what we do and I don’t want them to feel uncomfortable – not Alice of course as I love her feeling uncomfortable. I’m thinking of us both going to the changing room together but Alice holding her new dress, for example, so it’s obviously hers and seeing what happens

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      • Lesley says:

        I don’t think that you need worry about other people too much. From my experience the shop assistants in charity shops are almost invariably ladies, and either affect to ignore us completely or, better still, are openly amused and even on occasion join in the fun by making teasing comments, which REALLY add to Penelope’s discomfort. Same applies to other shoppers. It’s strange how many ladies take great delight in seeing Penelope squirming in a skirt or dress! If questioned you have two choices really, either tell it like it is, or use the cover story of a fancy dress costume – it’ll depend on your reading of the particular situation. So don’t be shy, Lady A, enjoy yourself!

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    • mistressk35 says:

      I love doing this with Stephanie from time to time. Some of the sales girls have actually asked questions about our lifestyle and had some good giggles at Stephanie’s expense, watching her model skirts, dresses.. Bra fittings the best!

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  9. Veronica says:

    Lady A, your continuing training plans for Alice are an inspiration! I just wanted to add a couple of thoughts from experience. Due to an operation last year I have to exercise on a regular basis and the results are clear – just from an everyday regime of pushups, situps and a number of Pilates exercises my waist size dropped over 2 inches, with the added benefit that my skin got quite taut as well. Don’t let Alice shirk – make her do a workout every day. The results will soon be evident. Also, as someone mentioned in comments above, a longline bra and a nice long girdle can do wonders to remind Alice of the new figure she is to attain. She may also find that she really likes the way they feel too. Naturally, it is whether you want her dressed this way that’s important.

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes I really want her with a small waist, I think that’s so important to make her look feminine. Yes I’ve enrolled her at the gym in classes and pilates. I may make her do low weight weights too

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  10. Michelle says:

    Hello Lady A, Alice will certainly have a much better and more feminine figure when she’s lost a bit of weight. How is she getting on with heels now, is she wearing them all the time, even at home, so she gets used to them? I myself pretty much wear 3″ heels constantly, and occasionally 4″ for more special outings or occasions. What is Alice used to? A slimmer figure in nice heels will make her legs look great and will hopefully improve her posture too.

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello Michelle. Yes the weight loss will really help, a small paunch doesn’t do much for her femininity or how her dresses hang. Her legs remain very slim it’s just her stomach really. She’s doing well with smaller heels, kitten heels and she wears them around the home. Higher heels seem to still cause her to walk strange a sort of stoop walk so we need a bit of work here.

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      • M D says:

        Lady AAs I continue to  read your posts daily ,it bring back memories  of My  Michele’s journey thru Feminisation.A  few points i would like to offer and suggestions on guiding Alice in your intended direction.First off I had to chuckle  with your comment about her small paunch. we went thru this as well  and  I  thought it was a perfect time to increase her  humiliation by purchasing a couple of maternity tops for Michele to wear. Need less to say  Michele wasn’t overly thrilled to wear an a very Feminine pink top with the inscription “Baby On Board”. It was very obvious when worn with her padded  bra. She looked so cute as an expecting Mom i often told her.  She begged me, to let her, at least wear her wig when she wore the top, it would depend on how the rest of her training  was progressing, sometimes she went out without the wig wearing this  top,shorts and kitten heels.. she didn’t even need blush with her make up (Smile)On Progressing her  to taller heels, then it is just a matter of practice, so she must wear them more and more, perhaps a corset to correct her posture( and slim the paunch) which I might add, I continue to have Michele do this  daily, as I tell her practice makes perfect so keep walking, tummy in, shoulders back, bust out and head highyou have become such a feminine husband, keep up the great work Lady A !!

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      • Lady A says:

        Hello I believe this is Christina although your name changed to MD on the post. Thanks for your suggestions for humiliating Alice not losing the paunch. It’s given me some ideas….

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      • Christina says:

        Lady A
        Yes that was me replying (Christina) about my Husband Michele BUT why it changed to that MD name/ I have no idea?

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  11. Michelle says:

    I do also wear a tampon when it’s my time of the month. I wear one for 7 days, and have to change it 4 times a day. I know you say you don’t make Alice wear one but if you like the idea of her wearing a butt plug with a tail this is also a nice way of her getting used to the feeling of something in her bottom, as well as instilling in her that as a girl now she must go through the same routine as all girls and wear a tampon for her period. I like the idea of her keeping a calendar clearly marked with her 28 day cycle too 🙂

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    • sara elise says:

      Gosh, wouldn’t Alice having to make a graph and post it here just be delightful? 🙂
      (On another point here, i’m glad i don’t have to have those girly tan-lines…. while i’d love them, i’d be soo embarrassed if my Wife made me do that!). Thank you,
      sara

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