I’ve just realised something.
As Alice has to unfortunately have her male set of clothes for outside the house, she has both her male and female clothing mixed up together in her side of the wardrobe in our bedroom. In addition, in her drawers she had male tee-shirts, socks and stuff mixed up with her female tops, stockings, tights, knickers and so on. I have realised that this is very wrong.
So last night I told Alice she is to move all her male clothing out of our bedroom drawers and wardrobe and to put them away in the spare room. Our bedroom is a female zone.
She has packed her male clothing into a storage box in the spare room. I realise that she does have to wear these sometimes for appearances sake outside the home but I really want her to understand that as she’s now a girl, she can only have female clothing in our bedroom and male clothing is the exception. I want her to have to sort through a box to find her male disguise clothing for the times she has to put them on for outside appearances. It has to be a chore.
I’ve also noticed that she still had a few pairs of male socks. I’ve told her the time has come to dispose of them, which I did. We will need to find some nice warm ladies’ socks for her for the colder weather but generally she can wear tights or stockings under her clothing when in her male disguise which will show when she sits down of course.
This actually all happened quite smoothly. I really think my girl beginning to understand.