As I’ve started to expand my network of contacts in our alternative yet far more desirable world of male feminisation, I’ve noticed that in most cases it is the males who have a strong desire to be feminised and have often had this desire since their younger lives.
I know I’m generalising and it’s certainly not the situation in every case but it does seem so from my unscientific analysis and relatively short experience in this area. Now I have clearly heard from other mistresses just like me who have had to ‘encourage’ their partners to be feminised so I know there are others like me. Nevertheless, the majority of people writing to me and people I’ve met in real life so far are males who have not needed to be forced.
This got me thinking about Alice. She never had any wish to become feminised until I decided it would be in our best interests. I still have small battles over her increasing feminisation which although often fun, can at times be irritating when she doesn’t initially do what I tell her. That said I’ve got her largely where I want her to be at home and now increasingly outside too. So why do I eventually win the debates over her continuing feminisation and get what I want (mostly)? I accept that I do use psychological domination and this is important but not the whole picture. Following a recent episode on Sunday evening where I had to get quite strict with Alice, I thought I’d go ask Alice why she did as she was told (mostly).
So what happened was that we were out having a meal together on Sunday evening in central London. Alice was of course wearing a bra although we’d had a little tussle over this before going out as she’d initially removed it. I won of course but had explained that nobody would notice anyway as it was under a shirt, a jumper and a coat. Removing the coat in the restaurant, I noticed that the faint outline of the front of the bra could be seen even through the jumper. Alice didn’t notice at first so I obviously kept quiet. The problems started when her bra strap slipped off her shoulder and she had to surreptitiously pull it up again whereby she noticed the bra outline in faint detail across the front of her jumper. I did manage to convince her that no one would notice as no one was interested in us so the situation calmed a little until Alice became warm in the hot restaurant and needed to remove her jumper. In doing so her bra was now very obvious under her cotton shirt. Not only was the outline clear, but you could see the frill and faint pattern on her bra. Cue pleasure from me and panic from Alice who wanted to go to the toilets to take it off.
I had to become very forceful and make her stay where she was and I told her in no uncertain terms that the bra stays on and stay on it did even though Alice was obviously very uncomfortable with the situation. This made it all the more enjoyable for me as she folded her arms across her chest every time the waiter approached. I don’t know if anyone noticed to be honest but that didn’t matter. However I asked Alice how she felt and I was a little surprised at her reply. She said she hated the possibility of being seen in a bra and absolutely did not want to wear it at all that day. But……
She found it immensely exciting to be humiliated in that way. As someone who likes to understand reasons and motivations and use them, I think I’ve finally understood why Alice accepts being a girl reluctantly. It’s not that she really to be a girl (although that’s what she’s become) she enjoys the humiliation of it all which is a great fit with me who enjoys humiliating her immensely although I enjoy her being a girl most of all. A win-win. All I had to do was ‘Go Ask Alice’.
Now why didn’t I think of that before?