I’ve been writing this blog for some years now and every so often I like to reflect on progress. Ever since I decided that it was in my best interests to feminise my husband I’ve never looked back (metaphorically that is.)
I have recently actually been looking back at my old posts, feeling quite nostalgic. Nostalgic because I didn’t really know where it was all going and there was some excitement in that and excitement when I made some of the big changes, such as getting him into a skirt for the first time and changing his pronoun from ‘him’ to ‘her’ and then her real name to Alice permanently.
I do admit that even though I’ve succeeded in going quite far in her feminisation process, there are still areas I need to address. These are the really difficult areas. So far we’ve been undetected in our new lifestyle as far as friends and relatives are concerned. This is the main obstacle as any further changes such as Alice wearing female clothing 24/7 or even pierced ears make this change visible to all. Alice is understandably reluctant to do this so as a compromise for now, I’m insisting on Alice being feminised in the presence of others who share our lifestyle. This Sunday Alice will be welcoming our new friends who are coming over for dinner. They haven’t actually met Alice yet only her male guise so I’m hoping Alice feels suitably anxious. They are far more advanced than us in the lifestyle so maybe Alice will learn something from the experience.
However in our everyday life, although I really want Alice to have pierced ears, be permanently feminised, have real boobs and so on, in the scheme of things so far things are not bad. I arrived home late-ish last night from work. It’s a great feeling to know that I can hang around in the office as I have no cooking or housework to do. Indeed arriving home at 8.00pm, I could smell the cooking as I entered the house. Alice was there preparing the dinner in a short pink pleated skirt and a white top. I could see her stocking tops. As I closed the front door Alice came into the hall and curtsied to me, said ‘Welcome home Mistress’ and then gave me a welcome kiss. I pointed out that she looked pretty and, once I’d removed my coat, we had a nice chat as she finished the cooking. Another sweet curtsy as she served me my dinner and poured me a little glass of wine. I caught up on my emails as she cleared up and then she joined me on the sofa to relax.
I know I want her feminised further and I will do this but what I have so far is not bad. Not bad at all.
Magical x
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Magical. Perfect balance.
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Yes it’s going well.
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A lovely post Lady A. Did enjoy reading your thoughts and nice to hear that you feel things are going in the right direction..
i will be thinking of you both…and particular of Alice’s dilemma this weekend.. am sure it will be fun..and Alice will come round to raising her feminisation to the next level courtesy of your new friends…
Good luck…
cj 🙂
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Thank you Jane. I’ll do a post on the evening which was very nice although I think Alice worked so much she didn’t have too much time to relax
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Things going well……….
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I think both of You are so lucky to have what You have Madam. Many of us can only dream of Your situation
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Yes I’m lucky to have such a compliant girly
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Yes, you are BOTH lucky!
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I so look forward to your posts and share them with my SO in hopes She will follow your lead, sometimes She has and I’ve loved it.
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Thank you Teri. She usually follows my lead but sometimes it can be a challenge
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Its going on excellently Lady A..credit to you to move along slowly so that Alice is comfortable in the changes…i really enjoyed the piece of her preparing dinner and serving you and making you comfortable..unburdened with the housework . And you also are aware Alice is there in the house to relax with.. All the best for the weekend…Shelby
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Thank you Shelby and to your anniversary. Please let us all know how it goes
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Alice must be so proud about what you wrote here.If someone would write things like that about me I would be very proud indeed.
Last Thursday I went to my girlfriend and she had a friend over at here place,so I had to sneak in and went upstairs where I dressed in my pink satin maids uniform and started making the beds and did 2 full loads of ironing for her while being very quiet. When her girlfriend left she came upstairs and was very proud of me for doing all my tasks in silence.
She does not ask me to curtsey,but I would feel even more submissive if she would insist on it.I will certainly bring this up to her,in the hope that she will adapt this and asks me to curtsey frequently for her. If so I would be more aware of my status as a maid.
Kind regards from Belgium.
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Why don’t you just curtsy anyway Connie Amanda? It no more than a lady deserves from her girly
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When Alice is serving meals (and when it comes to you having other Ladies visiting) do you plan her to behave as a maid (even if not dressed as one) and stand ready to serve to the side just out of the line of vision ready to ‘appear’ when she is needed to serve,clear plates, refill wine glasses.
When I was in service I found this the best position to put me in so I was not under the Mistress feet when she moved but was there the instant something was needed.
Having to constantly stand and work in 6″ heels was agony by the end of the day but I would gladly wear them again anytime to look after a Lady.
Not seen but always there and ready ?.
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I like Alice to join me but…. having to pour me more wine, serve extra food and so on. And she has to eat from different plates, I get the better ones and she has something rather plain.
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Once again – Alice is so lucky! I wish there were more women like you, Lady A. If I were married into the same situation, it would be my dream to serve my Wife-Mistress dressed as her ‘submissy’ in a pink pleated skirt with a white pussy-bow blouse and a tiny maid’s apron, balancing in embarrassingly high heels. By the way, of course a husband should curtsy – after all, she must know her place! Oh yes, I would love to be that girl for my dominant Wife.
Well, the rest of us can dream… 🙂
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Yes Lady A curtsy a husband should…his(her) woman is the Lady.. and husband is her girlie.curtsey is definitelymust.. and yes thanks Lady A i will certainly share about my anniversary..Shelby
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i am a feminized husband……..not going undetected……2 years now on hormones too, and i don’t regret. It is super difficult sometimes…..all the time…but generally….it is not more difficult than being visible as gay, or transgender……
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I’m always pleased to hear about husbands being feminised. There are different degrees to this depending on what suits the couple. My Alice is being feminised so she has the appearance of a girl rather than hormone treatment to make her into a real girl
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I enjoy this website – its so usefull and helpfull
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I’m pleased I can help
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