Forced Feminisation Frustrations Firmly Felt For Femdom FLR Female


female dominationThere is another F for the post title but this is a family blog. OK it’s really not a family blog in that sense but in the FLR sense. No need for bad language anyway.

In my last post I wrote about things going well so what frustrations are being firmly felt in the field of forced feminisation?

You may have noticed that I have been a bit lax in writing lately. Firstly in that I’ve been very busy at work. Now I shouldn’t complain because, as an alpha female, having an important job is normal and of course I have a pretty submissive housewife at home to help me out. It does mean however, that I can’t always concentrate on pushing Alice to the next stage though. This takes me to the next point which is that we’ve had a lot of family and friend contact over the past weeks. This plays absolute havoc with Alice’s feminisation as she has to revert to her male guise while we’re with them and I then have to give her a good strong push to get her back to being a proper girl. I love seeing our family and friends but it’s one of those areas I need to manage with Alice to ensure she remembers she’s a girl once we’re alone again.

This can be enjoyable at times of course. On Sunday evening after another long weekend with family and once we were on our own again, I made Alice dress properly again in a pretty blouse and bra but stripped naked from her waist down. I examined her clitty reminding her her pathetic it was and I then punished her by slapping her clitty and pussy balls with my bare hand for several minutes whilst telling her she was a very naughty girl for pretending to be a man and repeating that she was a girl and telling her to say it.

Whilst this is all good fun I really do want to push on to the next stages of her feminisation and this really consists of ensuring her mind is properly feminised and getting her out into the wider world dressed as a girl which can be a problem when she sometimes has to revert to male wear for long periods. I do have a number of ways of constantly reminding her that she’s a girl but as I don’t want to stop seeing family and friends, I need to find a better solution to my dilema of moving on to formally focusing on the furtherance of a fuller functioning form and fashion of forced feminisation for Alice.

 

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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17 Responses to Forced Feminisation Frustrations Firmly Felt For Femdom FLR Female

  1. Davita says:

    Lady A, I hear your challenge for I myself and my Mistress are in the same situation. With a lot of family and friends around it is hard for this way of life to evolve without conflict. I have to dress as a male for work and most of the time for we had adult child move back into the house for awhile. Really my suggestion is to have Alice dressed under her man clothes at all times. And continue wearing perfume, until you have a solid plan. And it may come to the point you may have to expose her to a few friends . Just a thought

    Davita

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello Davita ah yes the frustrations of adult children staying has also affected us. So whilst Alice always wears female underwear if there are family guests for too long and if they are female they will eventually notice that half the female underwear on the washing line is large including the bras:-(

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  2. Corsetjane says:

    Following frequent forays from family favourites, fantastic Femdom FLR Female’s fears for failing future forced feminisation finally fade fast ….fulfilling fabulous fetish fantasies!! Faithful fans feverishly flagwave for further facts…!
    cj 🙂

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  3. submissive_D says:

    Perhaps you can use a reward system? Treat Alice to some sort of prize if she is willing to go forward more willingly with her feminization. As to exposing herself to the outside world, that is scary, I do admit. Perhaps you could start by having her feminized around one of your best friends? Have her open up to your girlfriends first so she gets more comfortable about openly being a girl.

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  4. Girl louise says:

    Unfortunately coming out will have a serious impact on both your lives, some will not want to be associated with you and some will understand.
    If Alice is not desperate to get back into her proper clothing when guests leave its perhaps something to work towards – preferring and wanting into her clothes and not needing encouraged to get them on.

    When you go for a summer holiday why not book into somewhere like a caravan site and only allow Alice to take female clothing. There will be mixed reactions but Alice will have the experience of how others will react And the best part is you will never have contact with those people afterwards

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes you are quite right louise, I cannot push Alice to come out but the blog reflects my frustrations on this. I do accept that Alice will never come out so I have to make it happen in other ways. Alice does need a push to get back into female clothing very often but I’m not sure if that is laziness or just not being keen. I like the idea of going away somewhere where nobody knows us.

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  5. Sissy Chloe says:

    Lady A, I just LOVED the way you asserted being the “alpha female, having an important job”! Lovely. I hope you get to wear classy Power Suits!
    As for “going public”, I remember how fantastic I felt when I disclosed my cross-dressing to a close (female) friend. We even went shopping for clothes together. However, facing one’s long-time friends, colleagues and family members is a different thing altogether – and perhaps not really necessary, after all. Perhaps Alice can find some sort of “excuse” for certain things that might be noticed by others. For instance, she might want to join an amateur theatre or carnival group to justify pierced ears, traces of make-up or even “costumes”. I’m sure you can both find a way to be happy without putting it all out in the open. Some pleasures are even sweeter in secret. And yes – when she doesn’t need to be in her male guise, Alice should definitely be encouraged to dress extra girly without having to be reminded.

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    • Lady A says:

      No power suits I’m afraid but I do dress smartly. As I have answered to Louise, I do accept that I can’t go public with Alice and as you say, it’s not necessary as it doesn’t achieve anything except embarrassment for all concerned. Exposing Alice to female friends and other couples does achieve something though. I’ve often thought of turning Alice a bit hippy in style when not in female clothing to allow for pierced ears and brighter clothing, even some plainer female clothing.

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  6. ~sadie says:

    Dear Lady A,
    I think You have really come a long ways and we do have to leave in the real world of work and relatives. But i have thought have You thought about waist training for Alice. The proportions of waist verses chest and hips is a big deal of being a woman and it would definitely remind hyr of hyr position to You and the house. It would be the perfect constant reminder for a girl.
    Hugs,
    `sadie

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    • Lady A says:

      SO true we live in the real world and whilst I would like to change it so that all males are feminised it’s not in my power, I can only feminise one of them and that has to be in our parallel universe

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      • whyguys says:

        Keep sight of Your target, Lady A… and remember, what might appear to be parallel in the distance just might be drawing closer together day by day. Remember what Females and males were but a few short years past.

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  7. penfold says:

    At the end of the day relationships end and people die. Statistically it is very unlikely you will die together so my question is, if you unfortunately pass before your husband does – if you pursue the feminization to the full extent that interests you – would you still expect him to be able to function in the world without you?

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  8. dave94015 says:

    Reblogged this on dave94015 and commented:
    this post is about some of the difficulties of suspending your relationship with your partner (such as Forced Fem.) when family visits…and how to get back to it when they’re gone!

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  9. whyguys says:

    So sad must be your frustration on Alice’s cyclical reversion against what truly is in both your minds the proper Female-male relationship. Do you see ANY chipping away in the perceptions of family on their accepting and hopefully even moving to embracing however little possible of FLR and concomitant submissive male feminization… perhaps yet so little things as humorous comments on reversing Female-male roles, power, persona in news, entertainment, politics and society in general.

    Hopefully somewhere along the line your families must note some of the world’s ultimate (and inevitable) change towards sex-role and power reversal… who knows there may be some in your sphere of family and friends who might see what you’ve forged and hope to follow your lead… Stay proud and keep faith, Lady A.

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