Ongoing forced feminisation frustrations

feminizationEveryday life continues to get in the way of my feminisation project. However I realise now that that’s the way it is and as it’s unlikely that we’ll ‘come out’ to our family so I need to relax and think of other ways to push things forward and there are many ways to do this.

We continue to have an extended period of family contact of various types. Younger family members like to use our computer meaning a significant downturn in blog posts. I have found that it’s possible to have a dual life though, one for public appearances and one for how things really are. This doesn’t stop me thinking of Alice as a girl and ensuring that she continues to at least wear female underwear and nightclothes when we’re not alone. In fact I’ve insisted on her wearing a pink baby doll to bed every night rather than her pink nightie as the baby doll is soooooo feminine and sooooo short. At least we have the privacy of our bedroom and I use that to cement her femininity. A soon as we have a day or so of privacy then Alice is straight back into a skirt

Once we’re alone again next month I’m going to insist on Alice accepting a significant feminine upgrade which is wearing skirts outside the home. Ive been threatening this for some time but despite the lighter nights, it’s way overdue especially after our forced feminisation frustrations.

An evening drive in a skirt and a short walk to the cash point I think.


About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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12 Responses to Ongoing forced feminisation frustrations

  1. I know how irritating it can be when “real life” once again treads all over ones plans and dreams with its size 11,s!..informing family members that their brother,father,cousin,or nephew is now going to be living as a woman is make or break really. There are many,many people who don’t pursue their dreams and ambitions in the feminine field whether it’s just crossdressing or full transition because of the effect it may have on family,friends,and work,not that You were going to send Alice to work enfemme I’m betting…lol. Whatever plan of action You decide on I hope everything goes smoothly for you both…hugs xx

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Julia. I think the key point is that Alice didn’t really want to be female but wants to play and I want her female + an extra bit. Therefore she’ll never make the full transition but I want her with the permanent appearance and ways of a girl

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    • explorer3000 says:

      Nice affirmation……..


  2. Titiana says:

    I sympathize on your predicament. It must be frustrating to hit a roadblock or worse see backsliding after so much effort and progress. I suggest that you now step up things when you regain privacy. Ear piercing will be a good beginning. When you have friends or family Alice can remove the ear rings but rest of the time you can make it mandatory. Similarly you can invite close female friends home and expose Alice dresssed in house maid gear serving you. Occasionally you can as mentioned take her out for a walk dressed in skirts , blouse and heels. Alice should slowly get used to the fact that her normal life is as a female and male clothing will be a rare aberration. Even in the presence of friends or family you must slowly but subtly make Alice behave in a subservient manner so that she remembers her true position at all times. Best of luck and wish to hear more positive posts and more frequently. Titiana

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  3. chloe cashmere says:

    i think the more females that know about it that Alice is in regular contact with would make a huge difference. This could be slowly increased and also increased the number of places she can visit where these people are and then that can be increased as more people are introduced to the Alice part of her life. If i was in a position where i was, for example, at a house with my wife and a group of females, fully enfemme of course, and it was suggested we went out in public, it would be very hard to protest, especially if some of the other ladies made it seem like i was a wussy and sissy for protesting and not going out with them.

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    • Lady A says:

      You’re right Chloe and I really want to do this. I’ve started by meeting some like minded couples as you will have read in the blog but I really want to introduce Alice to just females and a group of females would be wonderful. I’m just not sure who of my friends to bring in on this. I may enlist mistresses we meet at events. That’s an idea

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  4. Corsetjane says:

    So frustrating Lady A….just as things progressing well…but love your determination to succeed at next level…
    There is a teasing inevitability that Alice is truly in the web…unable to escape…it’s only a matter of time .
    The delightful suggestions above, and those presumably to come, just make Alice’s feminisation a real possibility …positive feedback from your loyal followers and positive enforcement on your part can only he’d in one direction! I’m sure I’m not alone in squirming …with nervous excitement, at the potential of Alice finding herself in female company whilst en femme and being ‘encouraged’ to go to new heights..such a powerful image! Go to it Lady A…mores the shame that this never happens to me…

    cjane 🙂


    • Lady A says:

      Well I think now that I’ve calmed down a little that these frustrations are just a sign of life and we face frustrations in all our projects. I’ll get where I want on time and Alice will get to where I want her- within the limits of our society and world of course


  5. Mikki says:

    One thing you might try, Lady A, with respect to such “male” clothing that you allow Alice to retain, is to eliminate the pockets in them. Stitch the openings closed, and cut off the inner lining, to make the pocket unusable. Another thing would be to “de-macho” any pants she’s allowed. Pull-on, elastic waist pants, preferably without a front fly, are so much less masculine.

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