How I re-feminised my husband


forced feminizationI’m still dealing with the fall-out in relation to Alice’s continued feminisation after spending so much time with friends and family. We have lots of family and friends and this will always be something I need to manage within Alice’s feminisation but recently it was a bit heavier than usual.

However, we’re back to normal for now and weekdays at least are fairly clear. So I’ve gone back to full-on encouraged feminisation mode for Alice. It’s straight back into very girlie clothing for her.

I’ve enforced increased curtsying and referring to me as Mistress. Before Alice often used my real name and I used to let it go but now it’s Mistress and nothing else.

So to start with on Monday we went shopping to buy a new dress for Alice. We actually bought two and here she is looking very pretty in one of them. The weather’s so nice I allow her to go without stockings. It’s very short of course and only just covers her knickers. Perfect then.

 

I’ve also moved things up a gear on her housewife duties this week and started checking for dust and so on and complaining if things aren’t perfect. I’ve often thought about whether I should buy her a maid’s dress for these chores. On the one hand I don’t want her as a sissy as this does imply a man wearing frilly clothes and I don’t want her to associate herself with any male implication. I love sissies to but I want to force Alice to move into womanhood. For this reason I’ve always bought her clothes made for women. However there is a certain attraction to seeing her in a short maid’s dress so I’ve gone for it and bought one online. It hasn’t arrived yet but I’ll post a photo of Alice in it when it arrives. In the meantime here it is, nothing too ostentatious so I think it will work. Pink of course.

maid's dress

http://www.birchplaceshop.com/maids-uniforms/cheeky-satin-french-maid

And the third change is to do with her body hair. It all went a bit awry recently and she had a slightly hairy area of clitty and pussy balls and on her legs and chest so I’ve bought Alice her very own lady shaver body epilator. It takes the hair out from the roots so she’ll be smoother for a lot longer. She can also use it to shape  a perfect little triangle of pubic hair above her clitty area. I do like her to have a perfectly smooth hairless clitty and pussy balls.

So in some ways the occasional  road-block can give a fresh impetus to things and I’d say Alice’s encouraged feminisation is moving ahead quite nicely again. I don’t ask for much from Alice, in fact just three little things: Obediance, love and her as a woman with a fully funcioning clitty.

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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40 Responses to How I re-feminised my husband

  1. collysis says:

    Bravo! What a stunning dress for Alice. The cardigan and shoes make for a beautiful outfit. Alice must feel really loved. I just love your firm but fair encouragement of her femininity. Do you ever encourage her to have a time of the month or is she passed that stage?

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello, yes she looks lovely and it’s nice and tight fitting but made of a stretchy material so it’s very comfortable for her. Any sitting movement or bending does display her knickers which is wonderful too. I have encouraged her at times to have a time of the month and I bought her some sanitary pads but to be honest we forget to use them. I think we can probably say she’s past the menopause anyway due to her age so there’s no need anymore.

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      • collysis says:

        Yes little point if she is passed that. She must be the girl appropriate for her age. My SO has begun to encourage me to come on with her. Well i say encourage she doesn’t object but she does make sure we change atvthe same time etc. It’s not quite FLR but i enjoy it. She certainly draws the line at being dressed tho. Btw Alice stands and poses so well. Did you find it difficult to adopt a more feminine gait? Am so pleased for you both. X x

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      • Lady A says:

        Did you mean your mistress doesn’t like you dressed as a girl? Why ever not? As for Alice’s feminine gait, that has taken a lot of work and it’s getting better but in other photos of Alice you’ll see that it’s still a work in progress (or photos I haven’t published because of her male stance)

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      • collysis says:

        No Mistress not keen on the full girl outfit. Personally i would give anything but then it’s Her call isn’t it? As You have said previously it’s often the forced/encouraged feminisation that You personally enjoy. I think i might enjoy it too much! Ha ha.And at the end of the day its Mistressses call not mine. So destined to have some me time and my time of the month but sadly not to go to the ball!! So pleased for You and Alice tho ….Go Girls!

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      • collysis says:

        And thank You for pointing out my error. She’s not my SO ! xx

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      • Lady A says:

        I just didn’t know what an SO was so I assumed it was something to do with your mistress? I really think you should at least wear skirts at home?

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      • collysis says:

        Lol its significant other! I would love to but it’s skirts Mistress draws the line at! More’s the pity !!

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      • Lady A says:

        That’s a shame

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  2. mrbillsails says:

    That is a very nice dress, short and cute, yet demure. My opinion is that the maid uniform is a bit much and looks rather sissy. Personally, I would love to wear it!
    I do have a fantasy of being required to have a period during the month and be required wear a pad or maybe even a tampon. My wife recently had a hysterectomy so she will thankfully no longer have a period for me to relate to. Call that menopause I suppose and certainly my age would also place me in that same situation, but I do fantasize of being more of a teen girl or young woman in the way I am dressed and treated sexually.
    I keep my clit and pussy shaved along with my bottom, but my wife prefers that I have a full pubic mound. I shaved my legs during the winter, but she has told me to grow the hair back now for the summer when it would be visible. I loved the look of my shaved legs and she has said that she will let me shave them again in the Fall.
    I would love to be feminised as you have done with Alice, she is a very lucky girl.

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    • Lady A says:

      I’ve ordered the maid’s dress so we’ll see how it looks. I like to continually change things as part of her increasing feminisation to keep Alice on her toes so this is a bit of a change. Let’s see.
      As for the hair removal I also allowed Alice to grow it back on her legs for summer but now I’m insisting on her legs always shaved as I move her closer to being more like a real woman and that means shaved legs

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  3. corsetjane says:

    Excellent post Lady A…
    Love the dress Alice!…hope you do too!
    Be careful with that epilator!….i had a nasty experience over my “pussy balls”…ouch…not nice!
    Also…alice (using small “a” now…as obviously sub), be sure to use regular exfoliation scrub on skin ..i found if i didnt i got retained hairs under the new skin which looked terrible!
    Lady A…you are definitely in the groove now…and on a mission…am looking forward…somewhat jealously to be honest,..at what happens next! Just love your style
    cj 🙂

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes thanks for that Jane. Alice felt a little uncomfortable as it’s very short. As for the epilator it’s fine for us real women in that area but I hadn’t considered the extra delicacy of her pussy balls so I’ll tell her to continue with the razor in those delicate areas.

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  4. sewnigel says:

    I think focusing on the housewife role is an excellent idea, although for the reasons you’ve mentioned I’d shy away from the maid outfits. To me they tend to be very “fancy-dress” and represent when a man wants to imitate a woman without making enough effort to assume “womanhood”.
    I understand you’d like to have her in some kind of clothing appropriate to a housewife when she’s doing her womanly chores. First of all I would suggest, that when a woman is doing her chores she’s not normally in her prettiest outfit, so maybe Alice shouldn’t be allowed this indulgence either. I feel a more appropriate outfit would be something “Nora Batty” or “Hilda Ogden” might wear. I’d focus especially on housecoats/housedresses/tabards/aprons and loads of grotty cardies! “Granny Chic”, but ideally with more granny than chic!
    Alice needs to feel like a woman, with the sometimes dull unglamourous responsabilities that come with that. I humbly suggest she’s been having it a little easy living the sexy fun stuff with all her pretty dresses. Something midcalf is hardly flattering on anybody, even better if there’s a slighly longer slip showing at the hem. Charity shops have some horrendous styles available and sometimes in fairly ratty condition. When I’ve seen a housewife doing dishes their cardie often could do with a clean and needs a button sewing on. Why does Alice get to be so pristine?
    Alice at this stage probably has a few favourite things in her wardrobe, if you were being particularly evil you could “rough them up” some. Perhaps it would be fun to have friends over for a food fight where she can’t fight back? And then have her do the clean up!
    Finally, rather than spending time checking if the dusting is perfect, give the washing machine a rest and have her handwash everything.
    All of these are only humble suggestions, I obviously appreciate the great achievements you’ve made with her, please do continue…

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    • Lady A says:

      To be honest I like Alice to look nice and feminine with short skirts and so on. You have to remember that Alice is often uncomfortable in female clothing and sometimes pushes back. Therefore it is a punishment to make her wear girly clothing all the time now as she’d prefer to pick and choose as part of a game. This is starting to change as she becomes accustomed to her new status so I’ll monitor the situation and if she likes it too much maybe it will be time to make her a little plainer.

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  5. You are the ideal woman, and Alice is incrediblly lucky. I am getting good results with Pueraria Mirifica in capsule as well as nano-serum form. I recommend that for any tran who is unable to obtain straight oestrogen. Used regularly, it works!

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you and yes Alice is a very lucky girl. Regarding the Pueraria Mirifica you mention, in what way does it work? Does it affect ‘performance’ as I do need Alice’s clitty to be fully functional.

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  6. rene says:

    Lady A.,
    Alice looks great in her new dress, wonderful legs. I also use an epilator. It works great, keeping my legs, chest and underarms smooth and hair free. I have not been able to use it in my pubic region – as corsetjane mentioned, you can easily hurt yourself. I use a razor to keep just a landing strip there. I also have a regular period. Getting a monthly visit from Aunt Flo helps me feel more like a woman. I am required to track my period with one of those online period trackers and I must purchase all my feminine hygiene products myself.
    Curtsey, rene

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    • Lady A says:

      Thanks for the advice Rene and CorsetJane. I bought the epilator as it suggested it can be used on Alice’s pubic region and shape it but it seems like she’ll need to continue with the razor which is fine. I’ve tried her with the landing strip and it’s nice but I really love her with the little pubic triangle best.

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  7. Shelby says:

    Lady A thats a excellent post.I understand the difficulties we face with family and friends around. Glad u can carry on with usual life with Alice now.Yes feminisation into a woman that is exactly what I too am looking at and I too dont fancy being a sissy. I dream of being a lady’s woman. And carrying on the duties of housewife and other traditional feminine duties truly feminises and I am experiencing that.I remove my hair periodically and always keep my clitty and balls shaved though I use a razor. I begun using a ladies razor too! just to increase the feminine feeling :).I do admit using the razor on my “pussy balls” is always a little tricky.. My wife has got the maid’s uniform to be worn by me on our marriage anniversary which is just about a week away. I am practising curtseying in front of the mirror so that i do perfectly that day. I now wear distinctly feminine aprons like flower patterned etc instead of the dull ones which i used to wear earlier. My wife seems to be slowly appreciating the idea of me being dressed as a female at home now. I m wearing nighties and knickers but from the day of our marriage anniversary when i will wear a maid’s uniform she may let me wear skirts at home and only for her audience..Shelby

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  8. Clive says:

    Oh wow – I wish I had more time at this moment to delve fully into your blog. You have a relationship that I can only dream of. I love my wife to bits, but I remain very much a closet submissive and sissy. I love to read of others ‘living my dream’. Thank you for sharing

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  9. jim sedrut says:

    Keep up the good work ladies..

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  10. Sissy Chloe says:

    Deal Lady A,

    Your work with Alice is absolutely splendid! Indeed, the dress really suits her, the cardi is a delight, and her legs look very feminine in the picture. Also, yes – her girly clitty and pussy balls must be shaven smooth as silk. (I always do mine like that). I also totally find that Alice should look trim and pretty and the maid’s uniform will only increase her pleasure in her housewife role, which in turn will make her more excited about her “secret life” in general, causing her girly stiffie to function at its best in the bedroom. It’s a total win-win for both of you, in my humble opinion. You could also alternate her maid’s uniform with one of those vintage house dresses with puffed shoulders and a Stepford-bow neckline – very domesticating and demure, and also very charming and neat.

    It’s great that she calls you Mistress now – a girl in Alice’s position should know her place at all times.

    Also, I was wondering about Alice’s hair. Does she wear different wigs and how have you arranged her hairstyles? So much can be achieved with the right wig for the right situation!

    I’ve said it before, ad I’ll say it again: Alice is sooo lucky!

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    • Lady A says:

      Thank you Chloe, yes I think the mai’s outfit will add something. I’m always looking to push on past the next boundary. That was the reason for calling me mistress I needed her to show respect for her superior. As for her wigs no she only has two neither, of which I’m 100% sure about, I think she’d suit somthing shorter, a bob length I think. It’s very unfortunate about her thinning top as it would be much better if she could just grow her hair into a female style.

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  11. Lauren Williams says:

    Hello Lady Alexa
    Thanks for sharing the photo of Alice. I love her dress! She had very sexy and pretty legs. I would have loved to see them in some lovely nude nylons and some 4 inch heels. You must have been feeling very generous to let her off with no stockings and low heels. How generous of you! I Joe Alice appreciated your generosity!
    Laurie

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  12. Lolo says:

    I keep my husband shaved and in panties every day. On weekends and holidays, he wears short skirts and blouses with thigh highs. When there’s cleaning to be done, he has a very short maid’s outfit. He tries to keep his panties covered because he gets 10 licks with a bath brush every time I see the panties.
    Several friends know of our arrangement and the girls love it. One has started with her husband. If his short skirt shows panties, whomever saw the panties administers the 10 licks.
    When I get my period, he does also. He leans over a chair, legs spread and I insert a tampon. He hates being exhibited to the girls but really hates the tampon.
    The skirts Re all short because he has great legs. I wish mine looked like his.
    When we go to the doctor, a woman, he’s in panties. It’s great fun for me.

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    • Lady Alexa says:

      Hello Lolo and lovely to get you comments. Nice to hear of a relationship like mine although in my case I like my husband’s skirts to be so short they show her panties – or more if I decide it’s a no panty day

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      • Carla says:

        I agree. The dear thing is embarrassed by the short skirts. Do you take her out without panties?

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  13. Lolo says:

    When I have her doing housework, it’s not supposed to be glamorous. I put him in an old full slip.

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  14. maid angela. says:

    I have been trained as a maid by the Muir Academy in Hereford and I have worked as proper chamber maid many times. I am rather old now but still privileged to work for Madam Dawson from time mainly dusting her many ornaments. I do not have fancy frilly uniforms but buy mine from normal uniform manufacturers as I wish to appear to visitors as an ordinary domestic servant to be used and ordered about as required. MY biggest thrill is that when the work is all done to be stood in a corner facing the wall to have to stay there until required. Just the same as any of domestic equipment.

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  15. Tracy Lovelace says:

    Some people are feminised even inadvertently from wife’s stance…meaning having gone 3 kids wife is busy with the mom role & no time left for sex, let alone she had the excuse how would I kiss the kids good-night if I ask her for blow-job!! So this turned me (as a loyal hubby) to play alone & since I missed her femininity I started experimenting with lingerie nylons and heels. The epitome came after kids had grown and wife gone into menopause (for the past 3 years) where she lost completely any sex interest …. hence making me wanting more …. to the point that I bought my own flesh alike dildo and started pounding my ass …. realising soon that I had become a dildo craving slut & always horny waking up in the middle of the night to convert to a slutty Tracy bimbo to play with dildos fucking my sissy ass and deep throating the flesh alike toys in order for my pathetic little clitty to ejaculate!

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