Currently we’re in the hotel room and Alice is naked. She has to change immediately out of any male clothing to either female wear or nothing on entering the room ; as if it were our own home. I fancied her in nothing today. Seeing her little pubic triangle and her cute little clitty as she served me a cold drink got me to thinking about how we deal with the feminised male’s genital area.
I’ve used various approaches to feminise, demean and denigrate her genitals because it could otherwise be an unwelcome reminder that she used to be male and we really don’t want her seeing it that way. Feminisation of a male’s pussy area is a crucial element of any mistress’s feminisation project. Without it, it just can’t succeed, skirts and dresses just being window dressing otherwise.
What I do want is it to function effectively though. So there’s my dilemma.
So after a few years now of trying different ways to deal with this vexing dilemma, here are my opinions and what I now do.
- I was a bit slow to re-name her little thing. I tried sissy stick and other demeaning names but there is only one option and that is for it to be a clitty. Full stop. Alice has a clitty, like all good girls. I sometimes even refer to it as a clitoris if I’m being serious
- First of all I didn’t know what to do about what to call her balls. It’s obvious really as they form part of her female genital area which I now call her ‘pussy’ and if I’m really pushed they are pussy balls.
- I started off making her shave her whole pussy area completely. The problem was that it made her look like a young boy which was not a look I wanted. I did enjoy her clitty and pussy area exposed a free of hair though. I have tried a Brazilian on her but the best is the triangle of pubic hair above a cleanly shaved clitty. It just looks sooooo feminine.
- Size of her pubic triangle: I’ve her with tried several sizes from very small little triangle to a larger one. It may seem strange but the larger triangle is for me the best and most female. She has to shave slightly away from her legs so it is still well defined but I’d say it’s about 5 or 6 inches wide at the top, tapering to a point at the base of her clitty. Also I’ve let it grow so it’s a little bushy. The contrast with her shaved smooth pussy area is delightful.
- Clittys (or is that clitties?) need to be part of your wider discipline and punishment routine. Spanking on the bum is a fundamental part of all discipline but never forget to find an excuse to slap her clitty as punishment. It’s a perfect way to show her how insignificant it is. Imagine it, telling your girlie to remove her knickers, lift her dress so you can slap something that in the past was their reason to be. Lovely. I use a wooden spatula or crop. Sometimes I just raise her skirt and slap her there through her knickers if she’s misbehaved. I tried face slaps but clitty slaps are so much more humiliating for her.
- Clitty’s do need to be dressed up from time to time. A pink bow is a great adornment but I also like to hang things from it such as necklaces and clip on earrings. I’ve even used chiffon scarves. I have pink and yellow body paint and painting it is good. She has to wear pink sparkly cock rings too which I think she likes, but that’s perfectly fine.
- CBT. I don’t want to really hurt Alice but I’ve learnt as part of her understanding that I do what I want, it is sometimes necessary to play a little. Clothes pegs on her pussy and balls are a fun way to do this and it’s demeaning as she has to sit there with her legs wide apart while I clip them on.I once used electricity on her at a femdom event and that was very nice as she had two electrodes on her pussy.
- Fairly tame but useful is to pull her around by her clitty when I want to show her something. For example in the past she sometimes forgot to sit on the toilet so I would lift her skirt, drop her knickers and pull her to the toilet but her little clitty to berate her. A little cat’s leach around it is also very effective for other times.
- And never forget to verbally abuse it. I never miss an opportunity, for example when the weather is cold, to tell her how “cute and tiny her pretty little clitty is.” Actually even if it’s not cold it’s fun and necessary.
Anyway these are my thoughts from Italy. I feel even hotter now…