My thoughts on a sissy’s clitty


feminisationWe’re here in the sun and I can’t wait to get out and explore and sample the food and wine.

Currently we’re in the hotel room and Alice is naked. She has to change immediately out of any male clothing to either female wear  or nothing on entering the room ; as if it were our own home. I fancied her in nothing today. Seeing her little pubic triangle and her cute little clitty as she served me a cold drink got me to thinking about how we deal with the feminised male’s genital area.

I’ve used various approaches to feminise, demean and denigrate her genitals because it could otherwise be an unwelcome reminder that she used to be male and we really don’t want her seeing it that way. Feminisation of a male’s pussy area is a crucial element of any mistress’s feminisation project. Without it, it just can’t succeed, skirts and dresses just being window dressing otherwise.

What I do want is it to function effectively though. So there’s my dilemma.

So after a few years now of trying different ways to deal with this vexing dilemma, here are my opinions and what I now do.

  1. I was a bit slow to re-name her little thing. I tried sissy stick and other demeaning names but there is only one option and that is for it to be a clitty. Full stop. Alice has a clitty, like all good girls. I sometimes even refer to it as a clitoris if I’m being serious
  2. First of all I didn’t know what to do about what to call her balls. It’s obvious really as they form part of her female genital area which I now call her ‘pussy’ and if I’m really pushed they are pussy balls.
  3. I started off making her shave her whole pussy area completely. The problem was that it made her look like a young boy which was not a look I wanted. I did enjoy her clitty and pussy area exposed a free of hair though. I have tried a Brazilian on her but the best is the triangle of pubic hair above a cleanly shaved clitty. It just looks sooooo feminine.
  4. Size of her pubic triangle: I’ve her with tried several sizes from very small little triangle to a larger one. It may seem strange but the larger triangle is for me the best and most female. She has to shave slightly away from her legs so it is still well defined but I’d say it’s about 5 or 6 inches wide at the top, tapering to a point at the base of her clitty. Also I’ve let it grow so it’s a little bushy. The contrast with her shaved smooth pussy area is delightful.
  5. Clittys (or is that clitties?) need to be part of your wider discipline and punishment routine. Spanking on the bum is a fundamental part of all discipline but never forget to find an excuse to slap her clitty as punishment. It’s a perfect way to show her how insignificant it is. Imagine it, telling your girlie to remove her knickers, lift her dress so you can slap something that in the past was their reason to be. Lovely. I use a wooden spatula or crop. Sometimes I just raise her skirt and slap her there through her knickers if she’s misbehaved. I tried face slaps but clitty slaps are so much more humiliating for her.
  6. Clitty’s do need to be dressed up from time to time. A pink bow is a great adornment but I also like to hang things from it such as necklaces and clip on earrings. I’ve even used chiffon scarves. I have pink and yellow body paint and painting it is good. She has to wear pink sparkly cock rings too which I think she likes, but that’s perfectly fine.
  7. CBT. I don’t want to really hurt Alice but I’ve learnt as part of her understanding that I do what I want, it is sometimes necessary to play a little. Clothes pegs on her pussy and balls are a fun way to do this and it’s demeaning as she has to sit there with her legs wide apart while I clip them on.I once used electricity on her at a femdom event and that was very nice as she had two electrodes on her pussy.
  8. Fairly tame but useful is to pull her around by her clitty when I want to show her something. For example in the past she sometimes forgot to sit on the toilet so I would lift her skirt, drop her knickers and pull her to the toilet but her little clitty to berate her. A little cat’s leach around it is also very effective for other times.
  9. And never forget to verbally abuse it. I never miss an opportunity, for example when the weather is cold, to tell her how “cute and tiny her pretty little clitty is.” Actually even if it’s not cold it’s fun and necessary.

Anyway these are my thoughts from Italy. I feel even hotter now…

 

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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36 Responses to My thoughts on a sissy’s clitty

  1. chloe cashmere says:

    These are all wonderful ideas Lady A.

    As always when i read thoughts on a sissy clitty i immediately shout “chastity!” But remember that You require her clitty for other duties.

    But actually a chastity device would never interfere with those and can come off as often as desired but at the same time is a very humbling, emasculating thing. The sissy has to sit to pee and will never have an opportunity to interfere with Your property without Your say so and even a few hours of use can lead make a sissy feel less male and more feminine.

    Or, a nice pink ribbon or string of pearls tied around the nasty thing can have the opposite effect

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    • Lady A says:

      Thanks you Chloe, I’m currently using the pink ribbon in a nice bow with the pearls. I think Alice’s clitty is pretty and cute rather than nasty. Nasty are the thoughts that might enter her head if I didn’t do all the things I need to with her little thing.

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  2. trisneill says:

    My Lady used a pretty cat collar on me, around my clitty and pussy balls. Mine was pink with little flowers but if you Google cat collars there are some lovely choices. She had a matching pink leash that clipped onto the D-ring so She could lead me around the house. It was small and comfortable enough that i could wear it all day under my pantie girdle and panties at work. It was a lovely reminder to me of my owned status every time i went to the bathroom (sitting of course). you can get little bells that attach to the collar too. Best not to wear those to work;-)
    If You are interested You can read more of my wonderful FLR here : http://naughtygurl-triss.blogspot.ca/2009/03/pantied-part-2-who-owns-you.html
    Curtsies,
    trissy

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  3. hedo2014 says:

    If you want her to forget she has (had) man parts, how about tucking?

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    • Lady A says:

      Ooh that sounds uncomfortable although I like the young TV’s eyelashes that’s given me an idea.
      It’s not about Alice forgetting she had man parts it’s about forgetting that they were considered as man parts and understanding that they are pretty little cute feminised parts for my enjoyment and use.

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  4. jim sedrut says:

    You are a devilish Goddess !! What a mind you have :))))))))))))))

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  5. shelby says:

    Yours is a beautiful mind Lady A and inspire me sooo much..yes u ladies have full control over our clitties and have a power to humilate it..love these ideas..Curtseys Shelby

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  6. I so love Your writings and often wish I were alice.

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  7. corsetjane says:

    Yes… such a delightful blog you write LadyA.. every time i get a notification of a new entry i rush to see the latest…and what a great entry this one has been… i read it imagining it was referring to me..and whilst feeling for Alice…
    The name – lovely…and to be honest is the same as what i have come to call mine… clitty sounds so femme and humiliating..although i have not adopted the “pussy”…yet..
    i love your direction on hairstyle and its size.. there is nothing quite like taking a razor or wax to you manliness…it strips away, literally, the very essence..and each time i do it, it opens up the door wider to my inner femme feelings. i positively tingle when looking at a freshly trimmed little bush down there….
    i am in 24/7 chastity so adornment of bows is not so obvious but on the few occasions when i have been free i love the little cute bows too…terribly humiliating..but erotic.
    i agree with chloe above though…and still think chastity is an amazing opportunity for you…from my personal experience..it transformed my whole demeanour and took me from a relatively macho acting male in public to one who is permanently horny and frustrated and subsequently is more willing to please and be attentive. Surely this must be a bonus to you.. As far as restricting your access to pleasure… well thats literally in your hands…the key.. and to add to the fun can be hung around your neck on a little chain for Alice to see (and others if you so wished – always a talking point when others recognise the significance!). They come in all shapes and sizes (just put male chastity into an eBay search for a indication) and colours…(pink is one of my favourites lol) (could i suggest you look at chastitymansion.com for some inspiration!)
    i can imagine that CBT must be humiliating…and potentially painful.. and the thought make my cage tight just now…so i wont say more! lol
    …and as far a a little verbal abuse is concerned… a few years ago i would have always strived…like most men in changing rooms etc… to make it look in its best light!….and would have been horrified at it looking small and inadequate…but now…cute..and small are not descriptions i shy away from… what is happening to me!? lol

    i so enjoy your writings…a very special person who knows what they want from a feminised hub… dont stop!…and Alice…..you are very privileged….
    cj 🙂

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes I enjoy styling her pubic hair in this way. Your post stimulated my thinking and you’ll see I’ve decided to take up the clitty cage idea. She’ll only be in chastity when I’m not around of course, I have certain demands when I am around.

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      • Corsetjane says:

        So pleased to hear that LadyA. I’m sure you won’t regret it and will have a thrill walking out of the house with the key round your neck.
        And as for Alice…you are now on a roller coaster of frustration and horniness…you will not regret….
        Cj 🙂

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    • jim sedrut says:

      corsetjane says it well. Lady A rules the roost !

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    • Lady A says:

      I wouldn’t say that Alice wil lbe in chastity just that it will be locked away when I’m not around. I’ll unlock her when I’m with her. It’s more about my control of her genitals

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  8. collysis says:

    Mistress it’s sounds like You have a super holiday lined up. Just love the description of her little triangle – tho it doesn’t sound that “little” at the moment. I had my bikini line waxed once and my then girlfriend squealed “it’s so feminine!” and reached for her rabbit lol. (I played it down but in hindsight I should have maybe encouraged her… oh well. All in the past now x). Which reminds me – why don’t you have Alice wear some pretty bikini bottoms on the beach or at the pool? Who would notice? Would make for some beautiful holiday snaps xx Enjoy x

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    • Lady A says:

      I’d have to buy some new ones and the ones she bought for use on the balcony are bright pink with tassels and i think that may be to much. On the plus side the Italian men use the old Speedo type trunks here so a more neutral bikini bottom is not a million miles away

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      • collysis says:

        Have You time to send Alice out to buy some new ones yet? Do You always buy her clothes for her? x

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      • Lady A says:

        We always buy them together, either on line or in a shop. I like to ask her which things she finds pretty for her.

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      • collysis says:

        Something with some nice flowers/pattern on…..these places always have a shop nearby. How wonderful it would be to have her buy something there and wear it shortly after. You can be sure all the other girls will have checked out what was on offer in the shops nearby and would recognise it instantly. The guys being unlightened will be none the wiser… their loss! But You, Alice and the other girls there will know…..

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      • Lady A says:

        Good idea I’ll see what I can find

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      • collysis says:

        Hope you find something nice and she gets the chance to wear it pool side. Would make a great holiday snap for You x

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      • Lady A says:

        I’ll see what I can do. We need to be a bit careful as the hotel is full of British people

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      • collysis says:

        Do you think she might be the subject of some grief?

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  9. Paula says:

    Great update

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  10. Paul says:

    What a delicious blog I’ve found. I don’t know if I should be jealous of Alice or glad I’m not her. Your blog poses many questions in my mind which hopefully you don’t mind answering.

    What do your family and friends think about Alice, especially if you want to feminise her 24/7?

    Will Alice write a guest blog entry setting out how she views her journey,along with her hopes and fears?

    Does Alice have a man bag or purse, they seem popular amongst Italian men….

    Does one of your adjustments mean Alice wears breast forms?

    Have you considered a looked 03 chastity belt to minimise and secure her.clit?https://steelworxx.de/The-Looker-03-only-for-PA-s-118p.html?language=en

    Have Alice’s work colleagues noticed her bra or vpl?

    I look forward to reading your blog and your stories.

    Thank you

    Paul

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  11. Paul says:

    After reading your blog today I admitted in bed too my wife I’d like to be feminised, she responded positively and we are going shopping soon to jointly buy some knickers for me, we’ve also discussed removing body hair. I can’t sleep for thinking about being stood in the John Lewis lingerie department picking things like this http://www.johnlewis.com/collection-by-john-lewis-arianna-festival-floral-briefs-multi/p2691362

    Thank you for encouraging me to raise it with my wife.

    Paul

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  12. explorer3000 says:

    Your blog is mindblowing! The level of detail that you go to further feminize Alice is quite hot sounding. I am a heterosexual male–happily married (really). I get super turned on by what you do and how you describe it. What an amazing and HOT dynamic. Speechless !!!!!!!

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