I wrote my previous post as I relaxed in my hotel room but as I was lying by the pool listening to music on my headphones I realised I missed a key point out of my discussion and that was on the psychology around ensuring success in forced feminisation.
My thoughts on a sissy’s clitty described what I do but not why. It’s on the theme of de-masculinisation, which I guess is a synonym of feminisation in some way but I do want to emphasise the removal of masculinity rather than then the implementation of feminisation so I’ll use the de-masculinisation expression for this particular post.
You can implement all manner of changes: from clothing to hair, to make up. to re-naming and so on but….., short of having it cut off which I certainly do not advocate, a male’s genitals continue to stare you in the face metaphorically and physically.
I covered the range of tactics I used to feminise Alice’s ‘bits’ and to humiliate them but why do it? The answer goes back to the whole reason for forced feminisation and is that feminisation of males needs to be enforced in order that any real female and society generally can gain the amazing benefits from removal of masculinity from society to replace it with submissive femininity. I’m not going to turn Alice’s true gender into a female though surgery or hormones but rather transform her into a female psychologically and then to gain all those incredible benefits this gives me (and her once she fully realises and, believe me, she is now realising more and more.)
So looking back I now know that my biggest challenge was not getting Alice to wear female clothing or even to accept being called Alice, girl or referred to as her but to get her to accept that it’s no longer a sex game but a real change in her whole way of living from masculine to feminine. Her visible reminder was my challenge therefore. So in general, a male’s clitty has to be feminised, renamed, shaved and a triangle of pubic hair formed above it. It needs to be humiliated as I described in my last post and what I missed out is she needs to know that it belongs to me not her. So I do need to take one more step and although I’ve resisted up to now, I know I need to fit her with a cock cage for all the times I’m not around. I had a realisation that if she uses male toilets in pubs or restaurants, for example, she may well stand to use the urinal which is a reminder of her past and undoes my work a little. A cock cage will force her to use the sit down areas. I know she doesn’t play with it any more but she needs to know that she no longer has any access to what she had when she was a male, it’s gone, finished and I think this could be a big step in her transition.