What comes after forced feminisation?


femdomSo what comes after forced / encouraged / reluctant feminisation? Once you’ve largely turned your partner into the girl you wanted him to become.

Part of the fun ofΒ  feminisation is the little steps onto the next stage, each one a turning up of the ratchet. Sometimes it’s something simple like the removal of male shampoo and replacement by female shampoo products. Other times it’s a much bigger transformational step like getting them to wear a bra permanently. Each one gives me a great thrill. But what happens once you’ve turned your partner into a girl and there is little more to ratchet up?Well of course, there is still a lot I’d like to do. Alice does only wear female clothing at home and under her clothing outside so the next stages are more about getting her outside and showing her to other females. This is still very much on the cards but I want the excitement of getting her to be even more girly.

forced feminizationI wrote a book a little while ago called ‘Her Toy’ where the feminised male was turned into a bimbo by the imperious Mistress Aretta. I really enjoyed this idea if I say so myself so I tried out the idea on Alice at the Devotion event. She hated it but that’s not the point, I loved it.

So the answer to what comes after forced feminisation is of course…

forced bimbofication.

 

 

About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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39 Responses to What comes after forced feminisation?

  1. corsetjane says:

    Thanks you again Lady A. Love that little pink skirt for Alice!… i can imagine her squirming a bit at an event..but isn’t that the point! Bimbofication eh?…well that is a new ball game… i always knew that you were developing into Mistress Aretta! πŸ˜‰
    hehe
    cj πŸ™‚

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  2. patti59 says:

    Lady A….once again you hit on a great aspect of female domination. Alice is so cute in his ultra mini skirt. Showing him off to other females is the best way to not only reinforce his submissiveness, but it also establishes in all females what they should expect out of males. Males need t understand that their purpose is to look pretty and attractive to women. Wearing the cutest clothing, and showing off their assets is what males need to do. Thank You once again for your great insights!

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  3. jen smith says:

    Hi Lady A,
    You are a Mistress after my own heart! When my Mistress humiliates me in public it is so hard to bear. But in the end, the aftermath is so fulfilling to know that I served her wishes. I feel emotional waves of satisfaction that I have served her as she wishes. She does encourage and reinforce me by letting me know how much she enjoys what she puts me through.

    Hi Patti59,
    I agree fully that we are her to be what our Mistresses want us to be. I love when I am told what to do, what to wear, and how to behave. And even more so I feel loved when I am disciplined if I fail to live up to expectations. I think men need firm direction.

    jen

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    • Martina says:

      Lady A Alice looks so cute it makes me jealous. Given her short skirt with no nickers i would like to suggest you make Alice wear a nice long ribbed stainless steel hollow penis plug with a ring in the end . You can then attach a lead to the ring and lead her around. Alice will love it once she gets used to it. When you touch Alice she will be stimulated on the inside as well-as the outside.

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    • Lady A says:

      Alice tends to enjoy it too although it’s sometimes hard work to get her there

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  4. Dear Lady A,
    I’m not sure there is an ‘after’? Hopefully it’ll be life long journey with a broad and open horizon, with some particular places you wish to visit along the way, some to re-visit and explore more, others to just be a curious tourist that takes a quick snap-shot visit but decides that place isn’t really for them? From your writings i think there is still plenty of exploring to do, plenty of dainty little steps, larger steps and the occasional Neil Armstrong ones…. One small step for Female kind, one Giant leap for Alice…
    I ‘m sure with your imagination, there will always be ways to ratchet up πŸ™‚ But its very interesting how in a way its the journey itself and the progessional steps themselves that bring you the most pleasure and fun… almost as if its the resistance and your power to overcome that Resistance that brings you the most pleasure? I think showing her to other females would be definitely be a lot of fun for you and ultimately beneficial for Alice πŸ™‚ I love hearing your ideas and look forward to hearing more about her ‘bimbofication’ – i’m sure you have plenty of ideas! πŸ˜‰

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    • Lady A says:

      I should probably have said what comes after the PROCESS of forced feminisation has largely been completed. I think showing her off to friends is one thing. I so enjoy making her more feminine though

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    • Jennifer Caitlin Cox says:

      The journey is everything, for what’s left when your reach your destination?

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      • @ Jennifer Caitlin Cox
        Hopefully mutual happiness and maybe another new exciting destination? But i agree its the journey perhaps that’s the real fun… and could likely last a lifetime?

        @ Lady A, my apologies if i mistook your meaning. Once the physical process has largely been completed then perhaps as you suggest, trying new roles and modifications to behaviour- your example of Bimbofication being a wonderful example. Where the body leads, perhaps the mind should then follow for a deeper Feminisation and to heighten the Female led D/s bond (and of course your amusement and enjoyment)? Speaking from personal desires or wishes i would love to be Made (and pushed) to learn ballet (as a Ballerina)- the basic steps and routines can be learned from you tube and mainly its just practice, practice, practice! Perhaps you could mention to your Female friends that Alice is being trained so and encourage her to demonstrate her new steps as she learns them to accepting female friends, and set a date for her to do a small private performance when she has ‘mastered’ the basics?

        The slow but steady increase in Rules of Your Household being another example maybe? πŸ™‚ One day a week ( a non working day might best suited) for the duration of that day, Alice might perhaps be Required to Have to ask Your permission to be allowed to goto the Toilet, which might be denied or delayed… especially fun if that day you are both out and about shopping, or having a day out as Alice would still have to ask Your permission as and when required πŸ™‚

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      • Lady A says:

        I can’t imagine Alice being successful at ballet. Two left feet

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      • Lady A says:

        Another journey. Somewhere more extreme maybe

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  5. Jessica Drew says:

    I like the idea that you could voice train Alice. She has to practice talking in a more higher pitched, softer, feminine tone. You could insist she always use her femme voice when alone with you. You could even be cruel and not listen to anything she says unless she uses her girly voice πŸ˜‰

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  6. Britney says:

    I wonder if there’s any way back for him now, or if he’s now stuck forever in girly land?

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  7. Martina says:

    Lady A
    I can attest that wearing a penis plug is very pleasurable in more ways than one. I admit it sounds – no pun intended bad but as long as the diameter is right an it is inserted carefully all will be good.

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  8. Penney Panties says:

    I have really loved reading about the way you have feminized Alice. It has been an exciting transformation to see. Thank you for sharing it. My wife put me in only panties many years ago, but has never pushed me like you have with Alice. In my dreams.
    Penney

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  9. Penney Panties says:

    Thank you Lady A and juliettepetticoated for your thoughts. I do get to wear skirts and some other girlie things at home, but it is mostly of my own doing now. Once my Mistress decided on only panties she had much less interest in pushing it further. I’m a lucky gurl in that I can be Penney as much as I wish. Being pushed and shown off as you have with Alice Lady A is just so exciting to imagine.

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  10. Tatiana says:

    Wow, Alice! You’ve come a long way baby! Lady A, I think you are being too modest. Alice is not stuck forever. I think you are too good for that. I see you as an expert trainer; who has not just trained a stallion to become a mare, but taught some of us how to not just take a horse to water but maker drink.
    I feel you have miles to go before you rest. I endorse Jessica’s idea of training Alice to always use a high pitch, soft feminine voice. Winter is beginning and maybe you can take Alice out more frequently dressed and made up as a lady. Frequent public outings will get her mentally prepared for summer when you can have her “come out” more often in light summer dresses and skirts.
    Have you given up on pierced ears? Any more plans on physical transformations to make her even more “female”?
    You are truly inspirational .
    Love
    Titiana

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  11. In a lot of ways i do agree with you Tatiana πŸ™‚
    You know i’ve been doing a lot of thinking the last few days and one of the things i thought about- and would be very interested to see what everyone here thought about it – is this:
    I think everyone reading and replying is supportive and loves the D/s dynamic of Lady A and Alice and their mutual journey. But i do wonder are we all (i mean the readers and those that reply) not somewhat guilty of not considering Alice’s thoughts, wants and desires more?
    As i’ve understood the relationship, with my very limited understanding of it, its a loving caring marriage, where the Dominant partner (Lady A) is keen to Feminise Alice and Alice also enjoys this, but clearly has boundaries. Part of the fun (hopefully for both) is the gradual pushing of these boundaries and the journey of exploration. I do wonder though if we (again i mean those that read and reply) don’t really consider Alice’s thoughts more? I know i’m likely guilty of that – its easy to say (and indeed wish for/ want) or to project what we might wish to happen if it was us, but i hope i’m right in thinking that in any D/s relationship its always a two-way street…and as such do we in our admiration for a couple living this lifestyle many of might want or just agree with… do we fail to think of Alice’s wishes and wants equally?

    Its just a thought that has been ganwing away at me and i hope others here will add their input to it πŸ™‚
    xx

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    • Lady A says:

      What a lovely comment Juliette; thinking of Alice’s feelings. You’re correct in that it is a two-way street but I am the one who likes to push boundaries. That said I do have to take Alice’s feelings into account and I’d never do anything that she really found disgusting and I do always discuss my latest ideas with her. Sometimes I have to be firm, for example if she ever drags her feet in getting into female clothing at home. On other things such as having her ears pierced I have acquiesed to her deep worries about this (for now). Her feminisation is not really negotiable but how I handle handle it is.

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  12. Patricia says:

    Dear lady Alexa,

    btw sorry for my english. I am not native speaker. I read your blog that is great and admire your passion and determination. However, I think you should definetely bring your beloved girl to a 24/7 chastity, his dick still makes him a man. She is girl, you can buy him comfortable pink one. It the vΓ©st thing you can do. Also putting him into endless tease and denial sessions without orgasms, make him greatly obedient. His first orgasms may ve for getting his ears pierced. Just imagine, how he would cum after two months tease and denial of resisting, then he would cum with earings on. Basically, he would do anything for you. Have a great day and take his manhood away. Otherwise you cannot make a girl of him. And believe me, after two months without orgasms he will do anything, ANYTHING…

    Your Patricia in chastity for my beloved wife

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    • Lady A says:

      Hello Patricia thank you for you comments and I’m so pleased to hear that you re submissive to your wife, that’s how things should be. Regarding chastity, this is indeed a recurring theme from many readers. I’m not convinced I want Alice in chastity with an uncomfortable device around her clitty. We’re at the stage now where she has accepted she has a little clitty and it’s not a dick. I enjoy the fact that control over it is achieved through my dominance rather than any physical device I need to connect to her little thing. I greatly enjoy humiliating it as part of my control. I may well change my mind at some stage but I’m not sure about it yet. I prefer to have instant access to it for punishment and humiliation really.

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  13. Patricia says:

    Hello Lady A,

    I got your point of view. Probably, this might be a next step or new dimension for Alice. No hidden masturbation, no relief when you are not nearby, total control of her erection, no clitty touches. As you have already told, she now has a clitty and girls don’t cum nor have erection, so no dirty thoughts for Alice. Moreover with chastity cage she also has to sit to pee. From my personal experience, I can strongly suggest it. In the cage, you are totally dependent on your goddess under total control, you don’t have a cock anymore and you cannot touch it, as it not yours anymore. You are horny as hell constantly, all your thoughts are how to make your goddess happy, how to make her life easier, nicer and how to make a smile on her lips every day. I clearly imagine Alice in frilly pink cock cage. So strongly reconsider chastity for Alice, you would like it, I am sure, because it really works.

    By the way, I also have some tips:

    I would secretly put her a viagra into drink before the next devotion event. Just imagine her face with such strong erection on the event, the humilation would be enourmous, but I admit it is cruel ;-).

    I would also like to see with a frilly anklet over tights or stockings. She should wear it all times.

    Make your Alice happy,
    Patricia

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    • Lady A says:

      Yes I get a lot of comments regarding chastity cages and I’ve written about them quite a few times. I have thought about putting Alice in one and I even decided to at one time but decided not to in the end. The reason is that it appears that only be sissies and submissives want this rather than female mistresses. I don’t recall any comments from mistresses here to suggest putting Alice in a cock cage. I’ve even noticed at the femdom events I attend that single sissies often wear them by choice. So with this in mind I can possibly see that Alice might find one stimulating but really can’t see what is in it for me which is really the point. I’ve also seen that they can make their little clitties sore which is not what I need. Alice would never masturbate in private as she needs to save herself for my regular needs and any failure or reluctance to do this would tell me she’s been very naughty and there would be big trouble. I do like the viagra idea alot except that I’d tell Alice to take one rather than do anything in secret. Lady A

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    • explorer3000 says:

      gulp!

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