The world of femdom and humiliation is so rich with wonders for dominant women that there is so much more to discover as I found out last night (Saturday) and here is a mega posting on the events of the evening….
Since getting into Femdom, I’ve made a few new mistress friends in the femdom scene thanks to this blog, which was part of its raison d’etre in the first place. This is because, aside from our little secret lifestyle, we are an otherwise normal suburban married couple. I reasoned that there must be others like us out there, people we could do normal things with: meals, drinks and so on, but behind closed doors we can follow our love of female domination and the feminisation of our partners.
So I invited two couples we’ve got to know quite well over the past year to have dinner together at our place last night. We’ve met up with both several times, often but not always in vanilla settings. Although we knew both couples, they had never met each other before. Not surprisingly we all got on extremely well especially as the three girlies’ task was to be our girly servants for the evening. Well this was to be a new experience for me and I realise I’m still learning as my two friends, Mistress T and Mistress K, have more experience than me. I didn’t know what to expect so I let the other two lead a little.
One thing I took away from the evening was that Alice is not yet sufficiently feminine or submissive enough. No. The other two girlies were well-trained and looked beautiful and very feminine. Alice was a bit of a let down on the submissive side. The trouble is that she likes to discuss things and give excuses for failings which isn’t appropriate. I hadn’t actually realised how bad she can be. However this led to a big step-change in things and I didn’t think there were many more step-changes to go. I have to start with the point that I now realise that I enjoy feminising Alice and making her girly as a means of ensuring my control over her. Petticoat Punishment I guess you might say. This is especially relevant in that Alice doesn’t want to be a permanent sissy so putting her in skirts and female clothing keeps her under control. She hates wearing sissy clothing (rather than normal female clothing which she has accepted) and being spanked with a cane or paddle so I can use this as a punishment and threat.
After a great evening of being served, Mistress T proposed a bit of mild spanking for the girlies. When I lifted Alice’s skirt, to have a look prior to spanking her, we saw that she was wearing a pair of large pink knickers unlike the cute little knickers of the other two girlies. Now these are fine for everyday use but she could have made a bit of an effort to wear something more girly and that matched her little black skirt. Mistresses K& T were most put out and rightly so I sent her upstairs to find and put on a a pair of my black thongs. This had two benefits, they wouldn’t fit so well and her bum, would be exposed for spanking. It was a great experience to watch Mistress T take verbal control of Alice which was needed, Mistress K was adding comments about how unacceptable Alice was.
It was here that I had a brainwave. I asked myself what it was I really enjoyed and it was Alice’s humiliation. I never tire of seeing her little face when she’s embarrassed. So I told her to remove her blouse and skirt. She didn’t want to so Mistress K and T stepped in to order her. While the other girlies stood awaiting their own punishment at either ends of the room, Alice reluctantly removed her blouse and little skirt to stand before us in just high-heels, thong, stockings and a bra. She looked horrified and not a little terrified and moved to cover her little clitty bump with her hands. I ordered them by her side so we could all see the little bump of her clitty. Mistress T assigned extra spanks with the paddle to Alice for her insolence. I wish I ‘d thought of that but next time…
While we we all spanking our own girlies, I had to take further action. I can’t actually remember what Alice said but it really annoyed me. I told her she was embarrassing me in front of the other mistresses who came over to see what was going on. I didn’t know initially what I could do to reassert my authority. I thought “what would Alice dislike and I would like?” It came to me and I told Alice to remove her thong completely. She looked at me with wide-eyed terror.
She mouthed, “no please.” She stood there as we had a stand off. I told her I wasn’t joking and I wanted her to remove her thong. She needed to learn respect and I could see by her face this was the punishment she needed as she really didn’t want to stand with her clitty on full show to these two other mistresses.
I told her again the thong had to come off and to do it now. Still she didn’t and shook her head. As it was events were taken out of her hands as Mistress T slid the thong down for me to Alice’s ankles. Yes Alice was standing there in just stockings and a bra. It was wonderful to see her with her dignity and pride shattered. If this wasn’t enough, the two mistresses began to tell her how small her clitty was and how untidy her pubic triangle was. They proceed to show me how much better their sissies’s pubes were, one being shaved and the other a perfect neat little triangle of hair. I could see that Alice had not been very careful with her personal grooming. Yes it was a triangle and yes her pussy balls were cleanly shaved but it was just she hadn’t taken any care in achieving a straight-lined triangle or trimmed the length of her pubes.
I made her walk up and down three times in front of the three of us while we made comments. It was an eye-opening moment of realisation for me to see just how much more control I could exert and how much I enjoyed seeing Alice so subserviant and embarrassed. She was fully exposed and there was nothing she could say or do. I want more of this level of control. To complete her utter morification at being humiliated, I told Alice to curtsey in front of each of us one at a time and thank us for her humiliation. Her little clitty fully on show as she dipped before us all. It was truly wonderful and I could see that she was fighting in her mind to avoid an erection thereby completing her shame even further. This was an interesting development that I could use another time although I chose not to push it at that stage.
I eventually allowed her to put a skirt back on but of course it was to be the tutu. She was thankful for even this by this time.
Here’s a photo so you can get the picture of how she looked although this was taken this afternoon the day after with a little apron on to cover her little modesty for the wider world. I was going to say this is because this is a family site but I’d be lying.
So there are changes afoot in the Lady Alexa household. Alice will of course remain a girl but I want a much a deeper Femdom dynamic. Alice will learn that this is not a game and Alice will be submissive and follow orders at all times. I will be buying a paddle and the flogger whip thing like the one Mistress T brought with her yesterday and we all used on the girlies. I’ve neglected the spanking of Alice and I’ll be returning to daily maintenance spanks. It’s amazing how things can fall away if you don’t maintain leadership and control.
For the time being, Alice will not be permitted to wear knickers or skirt in the home until she has learnt to be a truely submissive Alice.
Thank you Mistresses T and K for your guidance and for the two girlies, sissy L and maid S, for demonstrating just how submissive girlies should really act.