There are, of course, many ways to maintain and reinforce a woman’s position in a Female Led Relationship (FLR). They are all very well documented and I’ve written about them myself various times.
In this post I want to touch on three very important things I do to reinforce my position as the ultimate leader in my marriage.
Before I do, I want to state that feminising Alice was the most important thing I did to bring her under control. Add in short skirts, high heels and large breasts and you have the base for full control. Forced feminisation, for me, was a fundamental requirement for taking control of my formally male partner.
However, even once feminised, our girls can become used to being a girl and occasionally forget their place in the home. Punishment is important but can be a fleeting reminder for that instance of disobedience. One problem in Alice’s case, is that she is much larger physically than I am. In high heels she towers over me which, as anyone knows, could be used to intimidate.Alice doesn’t ever do that but she may feel that she’s not as inferior as she really is when she’s literally looking down on me as I’m giving her orders or admonishing her. Therefore my power has to derive from something more physiological.
Here’s my list of some of the small but important rules that work well to maintain our situation.
This should be low, head bowed, with both hands holding the hem of her skirt. Of course, curtsying, rather than bowing, emphasises her femininity. From a power perspective it obviously puts her in a lower physical position to me. This removes the physical height problem to some degree. I insist on being curtsied to whenever she does anything for me or when I arrive at home, she arrives and so on. It needs to be constant to ensure she is fully aware of her subservience to me.
I often make her kneel before me or sit on the floor. She then has to massage my feet and legs or put nail polish on my toenails for example. Again the reason is obvious, keep her in a lower position.
I’ve written about this topic before but in short, men are proud of their little things for reasons I can’t explain. Even when they have become girls, they may be tempted to still think of their worms as a hidden sign to themselves of male virility and strength when combined with their often physical height. This is nonsense. Apart from calling it by its proper name, clitty, I provide a constant commentary of how pathetic it is. I find it useful to inspect it and make comments, like ‘it’s a little worm’. Other times how pretty it is. Alice often has to leave it exposed for the evening to demonstrate its vulnerability and my control over her little thing. It’s not important at all, it’s just a little citty. Now that I have a couple of femdom friends, I’ve shown them how pathetic it is for them to comment on too.
So these topics are not everything you need to do to ensure you have a submissive girl but rather some things you should never neglect. They negate any physical presence (in Alice’s case) by demonstrating that the stronger intelligence, superior psychological strength and the leadership of a real woman is the most important aspect in any relationship.