10 Reasons to Feminise your Husband

feminised husbandWhy a wife should feminise her husband

For many heterosexual women living in the usual Western social construct this question would seem absurd. Surely you are attracted to the opposite sex, someone who looks and acts manly and masculine? If you wanted someone who looks and acts female why not find a female?

Well let’s dissect these statements. Who decided that the biological male of our species has to act in a so-called masculine way? In reality that’s nothing more than a social convention invented by some males to justify, maintain and promote an unequal position in their favour. Scratch the surface and we find it’s just an illusion.

There are overwhelming reasons for all women to challenge this artificial construction and feminise their husbands and partners, and even their male friends and colleagues if they have the time.

I believe there are ten clear reasons for all women to feminise their husbands (and any other male for that matter) based on my own experience and in no particular order except for reason no. 10:

Reason 1. Feminisation makes males more gentle

Firstly, by putting your husband in feminine clothes, such as a short dress and high heels,  he will become more aware of how to sit and stand in a delicate way. It will remove any attempt to ‘man-spread’ for example: spreading his legs wide when sitting. He will have to sit slowly and keep his legs together. Secondly, the mere act of wearing soft feminine items of clothes has a profound affect on his manner. Psychologically clothes affect our behaviours. Think of the police officer who becomes assertive and officious, think of the businessman in an expensive suit and tie that makes him feel powerful. The man with a shaven head who is aggressive. By changing his clothing to something feminine, your husband will take on a gentle and submissive manner. Put him in a pink mini skirt for example and make him have long hair with a pink bow.

Reason 2. Feminisation improves a male’s hygiene.

Introducing a regime of female hygiene works wonders for any male’s personal hygiene feminised husbandand grooming. Many men today, such as my own husband, were not too bad in the hygiene area but never as good as a proper woman. Shaving of body hair, especially round their genitals results in smooth nice smelling clean hygienic skin. One of the most important hygienic aspects of feminisation is making him sit down to pee. You’ve instantly stopped those disgusting splashes around the toilet bowl that men make when standing to pee.

Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.

The opportunity for your husband to have an affair or even a one night stand is virtually eliminated. What (so-called) man would ever allow any other woman to see that his wife has put him in female lingerie? Even if he made a feeble excuse about preferring the feel of women’s underwear, how would he explain the bra and smooth genitals with a cute little triangle of pubic hair? You’ve eliminated any risk of him ever straying. You have control.

Reason 4. Feminisation makes him respect his wife’s authority

feminize husbandA wife needs to do a little more than dress him in female clothing to immediately make him more submissive. I would suggest you go further of course and make that clothing extremely feminine and revealing. I insist on Alice wearing miniskirts, pleats, pinks, pretty dresses and so on. Husbands need to be made to feel girly and exposed. Accentuate this by ensuring your own clothing whilst also feminine, consists of skirts to the knee and fully covered tops. This shows the relationship level is not equal. He has to expose flesh for my pleasure and I don’t.

Reason 5. Feminisation ensures he does the household choresfeminise your husband

You can turn him into your personal maid  or just the housewife. You’ll never have to do boring household chores ever again, unless you feel like it. This frees up your time for more interesting activities, such as reading and going out with friends. Really ladies, no more ironing is a reason alone for forced feminisation. Of course, you also save the cost of a cleaner as you have a free one at home.

Reason 6. Feminisation increases the sexual energy in the home.

Let’s not forget that feminisation is a turn-on for the wife and importantly, also for the husband. I say importantly as the intense excitement he will feel through cross-dressing and being feminised generally gives the wife a powerful tool for manipulation. In any relationship you will become used to your partner. Feminisation increases the excitement and for me, remains just as exciting even four of five years after having first feminised Alice.

feminised husbandReason 7. Feminisation increases his understanding of real women

By making your husband or man undergo the beauty routines and household tasks, you have introduced him to the reality of being a girl. He will see women differently and appreciate what we’ve traditionally had to do. No more as husbands are now the new housewives.

Reason 8. Feminisation makes him more attractive feminised husband

Being a heterosexual woman doesn’t necessarily mean I want to see a large rough hairy-bodied man in jeans and tee shirt and shaved head. Women are so much more fragrant and making your husband smooth and fragrant too with pretty clothing and colours makes  him more attractive. As he takes more care of himself as a feminised male, then his looks and appearance improve exponentially.

Reason 9. Feminisation reduces a male’s aggression and bad habits

Why is it that men fight, drive too fast and think it acceptable to talk over women? All these problems are eliminated through feminisation. Testosterone is often unfairly blamed, in my opinion, for aggression. It’s needed, in my opinion, to be able to perform and I wouldn’t want my Alice to not perform would I? But any aggressive tendencies she did have were washed away through becoming a pretty girl in a short skirt with high heels.

Reason 10. Feminisation is better for him too

feminised manLast and least, feminisation benefits your man too. Expectations of him fall following his feminisation and there is no longer the need for him to fulfill the role of provider, strongman and fixer of everything. This is often a stressful situation for many men as they try to do things that they are just not cut out to do; lead, make decisions, solve problems and so on. Now they can relax and follow their wives’ decisions and undertake work that doesn’t require them to use strength or thought. Housework, ironing, washing, cleaning and cooking are examples of  ideal work for them. I also get Alice to make repairs to my clothing and so on. Now this doesn’t mean that will be absolved of any work in the home that is typically thought of men’s work. They should be made to continue to do the gardening, decorating and household repairs. The point is that all housework is more fulfilling for them as they don’t need to stress their brains or take responsibility. They don’t have to make any decisions as you, as the wife and head of the house, decide what they will do and set their work schedule.


Summing it all up

Feminisation of any man is the solution to many of the world’s problems. Closer to home, it’s the perfect answer for household harmony. Life becomes so much better for the lady of the house. There is  hard work ahead for any wife undergoing a force feminisation programme as she needs to maintain control and push the feminisation and work schedules onto her husband, sometimes in the face of resistance. I believe that the effort is repaid a hundred times or more as the outcome will always be a better life for both of you. Albeit in different ways.

It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control. Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminisation will be different for every couple. At the minimum he should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.








About Lady Alexa

I am a writer and a believer in the immense benefits of male feminisation and female domination. My blog records my true-life experiences in these areas. I also have several novels and a non-fiction book published on Amazon about forced feminisation which you can find under my pen name Lady Alexa. I live in a quiet corner of North London with my obedient and feminised husband/housewife.
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23 Responses to 10 Reasons to Feminise your Husband

  1. LLoyd (a rithmetician) says:

    oh-oh…. broken link !


  2. Tris Neill says:

    Such a perceptive list, Lady Alexa. As a feminised housewife myself i couldn’t agree more! Especially the first point You make about feminine clothing on ‘males’ making them submissive and gentle. As i dress in my girly finery, my ‘male’ mask slips away (what a relief!) and i feel a warm rush of submissiveness and ‘femininity’ wash over me and i just know this is how i was meant to be. Everything else flows from there: the desire to honour and please all Women (not just my owner and Mistress, all Women deserve my submission to their divine Femininity), the attentiveness to Her pleasure, the housework happily done, and the wonderful sexual energy resulting from my eagerness to fulfill my ‘feminine’ role.

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    • Lady Alexa says:

      From the other way round I love to see Alice’s masculinity fall away when I put her in a pretty dress. I can actually see the change in her face

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      • trisneill says:

        That is exactly what my Lady said too! i visibly became softer and more caring, She said. I think it is because for many sensitive males, the whole harsh “masculine dominant ‘ persona is an artifice. We learn to present this way because so-called society expects these Tough Male/Soft Female divisions. What an enormous waste of time and energy this is, pretending to be something we are not!!

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  3. SissyStephie says:

    Great top 10 Lady A ! I can relate to all of them after just over a year and a half .

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  4. whyguys2016 says:

    An amazingly insightful analysis of what positive outcomes male feminization offers to improved sexual relations in society for both sexes. Especially cogent also was your addendum:

    “It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control. Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminization will be different for every couple. At the minimum he should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.”

    This statement is particularly telling in that it finishes reiterating that virtually complete male feminization and full role-reversal shall and should be inevitable. YET earlier the paragraph began assuring the Female would rule without the rampant abusiveness used by false male superiors in he past. The very fact Females shall use a far more ‘gentle’ but still COMPLETE CONTROL shall be the key in Woman’s new and appropriate power never being reversed ever again — the male will accept his knowing the Female Master shall rule with a gentleness and tough love that is necessary but not nearly as excessive that the foolish male used in the past.

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    • Lady Alexa says:

      I’m attempting to show that many female led relationships are indeed loving both ways. Once the male accepts his place as a feminised submissive then everything is wonderful. Of course some punishment may be necessary if he were to do something naughty but if he behaves then there should be little problem.

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  5. whyguys2016 says:

    ONE CAVEAT on:

    Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.

    It might be that once the inevitable sex-role-reversal is complete, upon occasion the RARE (far more rare than past arrogant males in the ‘macho’ world) Female sexual predator might be encountered who might attempt to lure attractive feminized males into inappropriate dalliances. Guess they shall ultimately pay a price, but unfortunately there shall always beat times unseemly character throughout even an improved Gynarchical society.

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    • Lady Alexa says:

      I did think that ther eis some risk here but generally the reason holds in everyday life.

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      • SissyStephie says:

        I’ve pretty much always behaved, or there was some punishment . However since since Mistress K put me in chastity that really has made me even more obedient, serving her better . Go a few months without orgasm goes a long way in keeping a s missive males mind ” right “

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      • Lady Alexa says:

        Yes I would expect you to be behaved just as Alice is.

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      • whyguys2016 says:

        Lady Alexis, i truly meant no contrariness and heartily agree as i would again emphasize that as Female power and predominance replaces past male run era, the Female shall rule with far more wisdom and benevolence than the male — yet STILL Her dominance shall be complete and unalterable.

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  6. Philipp says:

    Lady A, this is a wonderful list of reasons why woman should feminise their husbands, boyfriends and even their male friends and coworkers! That might be your best blogpost ever. Would you feminise a male friend or coworker of yours if you had the opportunity? Do you even have a candidate?



    • Lady Alexa says:

      Well thank you Philipp. I often get asked why a woman might want to feminise a partner so I finally got round to explaining, from my own experience, why. I do like the idea of feminising a co-worker and I have covered this in a couple of my novels, A Very Dominant Woman and Becoming Joanne. I don’t think in real life it would be so possible. The situation would need to be like those in my stories where the male being feminised was a subordinate and there was no sexual relationship. The environments were also very feminine with a single male in an office of females. If I ever had that situation then why not?

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      • Philipp says:

        Thank you for the reply, Lady A, and for taking the time to write up your reasons to feminise a male. I agree that in real life such a situation is very unlikely to happen (male being a subordinate, no sexual relationship and the only male in an office of females) but I love that you would go for it if you ever had that situation. I have fantasied about it and would love to serve a woman as her secretary in a skirt and heels.

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  7. punkahwallah says:

    May I suggest another reason to add to your list? Feminisation enables the male to express his love and admiration of his Mistress. Imitation being the sincerest form of flattery.


    • Lady Alexa says:

      I’m pleased of course that a male would want to express love and admiration although the post was about why a woman should feminise a male rather than thinking from the perspective of a male who wants to dress and imitate a woman. Many males don’t realise they need to be feminised and there are women who don’t yet see they need to control their male partner.

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  8. Lauren Williams says:

    Hello Lady Alexa
    I am convinced you are right about the rationale and need to feminize us. I just. Wish more women especially my wife would actively undertake it. I try to feminize my self and when I am Lauren I am much happier. I would relish a woman taking control of my life and teaching me to be the best girl that I can


  9. Michelle says:

    My lovely wife knew of my crossdressing when we were married. She does not participate or encourage me in any way. I keep my body and legs smooth shaven; and would love for my wife to encourage me; even better; order me to wear sheer nylons on a regular basis for her inspection; seeing as I enjoy keeping my legs so feminine. She could even tease me; calling me her feminine, husband ” bitch “. Thus; I would enjoy a dominant side to her nature. I would truly wish she would accept and encourage my feminine side and crossdressing. In return; I would most certainly be open to her seeing other men of her choice; and even having an intimate and sexual relationship with them if she desired. Fair enough I suppose. I’ve had these feelings and fantasies since before we were married; but could never figure a way to tell her; as I didn’t think she could be open minded enough to include them in our marriage. Maybe too little; too late.


  10. Wendae says:

    I agree with all 10 but, it needs to be 24/7. So he(she) needs to be a housewife and work from home. If she is passable maybe find employment.

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