I get lots of questions about these subjects. I don’t pretend to be an expert but I am in an FLR and I have ‘force’ feminised my husband so I always reply with what worked for me and my experiences.
The questions I receive from males are very different to those I receive from the ladies.
- Taking the males first, a general question is either how do I find a woman for a female led relationship or how do I get my girlfriend/wife to accept my desire to be a sissy/girlie etc? This question is the wrong one. Firstly, if you’re in a relationship then you should be there for reasons of love, affection and attraction. Never tell a prospective or current partner that you want to be feminised or turned into a sissy girl. What’s in it for them? All ladies want to be treated with respect and the more respect you give them and the more control the more chance they will eventually want to feminise you. Secondly, be a feminine friend to your lady, be more sensitive, especially to their needs. Pamper them, do housewife chores for them. Show them the benefits of you being a female like them only a submissive one. You’ll really need to forget yourself as priority and make her the priority and give her full control.
I had a problem with Alice in that she forgot about my needs and started enjoying her female clothes just a little too much. I of course took steps and made her wear nothing at all at home until she learnt the true order in the household and the true priority – it’s always the lady of the home who comes first
2. For the ladies who want their men to be feminised, you’ll often need to take a softly softly approach. Of course being assertive and demanding is necessary but also praise your girlie when he’s in beautiful feminine clothes. Get him to associate pleasure with being a girl and displeasure with being male. You’ll need to constantly nag and keep on top of things to ensure he dresses and acts appropriately. You’ll need to throw away his pyjamas and underpants very early on in the feminisation process and move him into knickers and nighties immediately. This isn’t actually so difficult as they feel nice and no one else can see. I also learnt that you need to make him grow his hair long. I waited too long for this. Obviously get him to shave legs and chest as soon as possible. Again not so difficult as it’s hidden from the outside world and once they do it, it feels nice on their nicer female clothing. Vital to the whole process, once you have decided to feminise him, is to get him into skirts as soon as possible. Do not delay this step at all. I know it’s daunting to tell him to put on a skirt but associate it with sex and pleasure for him – it works every time. Get him to explain how nice the female clothing on his hairless body is. Make him explain how wonderful it is to be female and make him directly speak about wearing a skirt. And finally start calling him girl as in pretty girl, good girl and so on. Give him lots of compliments associated with the word girl, “you look so sexy as a girl” and so on. Start during sex games and then gradually bring it into permanent use along with a proper feminine name.
So I hope that helps to answer a few questions. I think in short, whether male or a lady, be aware of what’s in it for your partner. For males, think about how your lady partner will benefit from feminising you as a man. For ladies associate the forced feminisation process with pleasure and compliments, especially if he is reluctant beyond the bedroom.