As part of my theme on maintaining your husband, boyfriend or male partner as a feminised girl, you have to be aware of ‘back-sliding’. These are the excuses for not putting on female clothing. With Alice I have her feminised now and she puts on her skirt or dress every morning without any involvement from me. There are still times however, when I need to intervene as she’s still prone to looking for ways to put on trousers at home.
The latest excuse was that she was doing some decorating and it was a little chilly so she said she would just ‘slip on a pair of old jeans’. These are the jeans she wears when gardening – an unfortunate necessity as the neighbours can see into the garden. All ladies have to watch out for these little ‘innocent’ comments and react instantly and reaffirm her femininity. I usually use friendliness and compliments although this isn’t the first time she’s tried this trick when decorating.
“You don’t want nasty trousers. You’re a pretty girl and pretty girls don’t wear men’s clothes now do they?” and I fished out an old skirt and some thicker tights and held them out with a smile. Alice reluctantly slipped them on. “Oh you look sooo cute” I said and occasionally watched her working in the little skirt and smiled and made some compliments and even put my hand up her skirt once or twice.