That Thursday morning feeling

This will be the last post regarding Alice’s pierced ears for the time being since she refused again yesterday. So she has nice pink toes nails and clear varnished finger nails but no earrings.The lady who comes to our house said she actually does lots of men’s nails although most just have a manicure, Alice is not the only one though to have coloured toe nails. Interesting.

Back to pierced ears, Alice explained that she would like pierced ears but having pierced ears is something that can’t be easily hidden. It’s ok for younger men but Alice said it would be quite dramatic for a seemingly average English middle aged man to suddenly start wearing earrings. I’m obviously concerned about Alice’s feelings although I’m not in the least bit worried myself if everyone (when everyone?) finds out that my husband is actually  living now as a girl, a very feminine  girlie. Short of actually having her held down I’m not sure what to do.

I was a quite annoyed all the same as I was really looking forward to this step in her feminisation. I confess to deliberately embarrassing Alice by calling her Alice in front of the lady and telling Alice she was a silly girl in an angry way. The nail lady kept quiet and looked out the window pretending not to hear. Alice complained afterwards but I snapped at her that it was her fault I did that and she shut up.

Regarding the idea I’ve been having of Alice growing her real hair longer despite the thinning top, I’ve told Alice to grow it to cover her ears completely and then with a change in her external style and the ability to hide them a little in public, we can re-visit the pierced ears plan. Currently her (real) hair covers the top half of her ears for the first time since she was a teenager and this has softened her face a lot.Soon she will be able to have a small pony tail.

I’ve put in place some punishments. I’ve continued the clitty on show rule with her skirt front pinned up. She’s also had extra spankings and harder on her bum and clitty. I’ve also withdrawn from doing anything in the home and Alice has to do all the housework and cooking and then pamper me. She has to curtsey every time she sees me and kiss my feet when I come home from work which is a new rule. She also has to curtsey gently outside the home when bringing me something. Maybe something good will come out of this as Alice has been complying with these new rules perfectly. She’s feeling guilty I suppose.

 

A feminised husband, earrings and humiliation

I’m not sure whether to call Alice my feminised husband any more or my wife? Anyway it seems that finally Wednesday’s the day to get her ears pierced. Something so simple has been a bit of a saga for one reason or the other not least because of Alice’s reluctance to have something SO obvious to the outside world. Never mind we’ve got over that with a compromise and the young lady is coming Wednesday to do our nails and pierce her ears. I’m very excited about this as I so want my girl to look more feminine.

However now that this is almost done I’m thinking of other things I like to do. I enjoy the power of humiliation and subjecting Alice to this. I got an idea from some of my Pinterest pictures of some humiliation ideas. One of the best ways to maintain control over your girlie husband is to control her clitty and pussy and humiliate and feminise it. So for a while I’ve told Alice that when I’m in the house her clitty and pussy has to be permanently on show. I want her to continue to wear female clothes of course so I’m not talking naked exactly. I’ve therefore banned her from using knickers for the time being and she will:

  • wear skirts so short they don’t cover her clitty,
  • have her dresses and skirts pinned up at the front to expose her clitty or
  • wear no skirt at all, just stockings, shoes and blouse.

Her clitty will have a nice pink bow tied very tightly around it and must not be hidden. Here are a couple of the pictures I got the idea from.

I so much want to find a female friend to come round with Alice like this. That would be wonderful.

 

 

I’m a very happy Mistress

After our chat last week about my girlie husband Alice’s concerns, her ongoing feminisation has actually increased! No I didn’t quite expect it quite so much either. I admit my strategy was to allow Alice a couple of concessions in return for some blocking points. That way I move things along, she gets used to them and then I can return to the things I allowed and start pushing again. So what’s happened?

Well I agreed not to make her go to a place to have her nails done which she found quite humiliating (that was the point for me but never mind for now). In return a lady will be coming to the house to do both mine and Alice’s nails nails next Wednesday. Alice will have bright pink toe nails but clear lacquer finger nails. That was the agreement. The lady also does pierced ears and this will also happen next Wednesday for Alice. She’s now worried but that was the agreement. I said we can remove her earrings and cover and fill the holes with make-up if we are with family or something. I’m not really sure whether that will cover them or not but it’s calmed Alice down a little.

The other big change is in calling her ‘Alice’ and ‘girl’ all the time. I agreed not to shout it out loud outside the house but we agreed that in normal conversation at any time anywhere she is ‘Alice’, ‘girl’ and ‘her’. So we went to the supermarket and I used ‘be a good girl and pick up some apples” as we we walking round and “What do you think Alice?” about some product and so on. We went for a coffee another day and she brought the coffee to the table I said “thanks beautiful” and when she sat down I told her “you’re looking pretty today Alice”. She agreed this and so I did it. To be honest I overdid it but it was necessary.

A long discussion on feminisation in our marriage

As I’ve mentioned many times, on the outside we appear to be a normal middle aged (sigh) married English couple. Although I write this blog about my increasing feminisation of my girlie husband Alice and the fact she wears entirely feminine clothes, our life isn’t just about Alice’s feminisation. We do everything an otherwise normal married couple does: shop, go to the cinema, cook, eat out, eat in, go on holiday, listen to music, watch TV and so on. We also talk to each other, of course about things other than feminisation: the news, the weather, what we want to do etc. etc.

So, I decided it was time to have a serious conversation on Alice’s continuing feminisation; my goals and hers. We are married, we live together and I do have to take into account her opinion obviously. Whilst we have both agreed that I lead the marriage, it’s not all about me just giving orders and spanking Alice when I feel like it. I had a strong feeling, well more of a realisation to be honest, that our feminisation goals may not be fully aligned. Time to talk. Alice agreed.

So Saturday evening, glass of wine in hand, we talked. I started.

“We have agreed I should be the lead in our marriage” I said and Alice agreed. This is really not in question. She has suffered from society’s patriarchal view of life where the man has to show leadership and take decisions. Why? Exactly it’s ridiculous. I on the other hand believe strongly in a MATRIARCHAL society where women lead. Alice is no wimp but she is happy with this view. So a good start to our discussion.

“As part of the matriarchal household where I lead, you have to be female.” Again Alice agreed. Well she couldn’t do anything else as she was sitting there in a white flared mini skirt, bra and tight pink blouse. However there was some doubt about the definition of being female. She explained that she had become used to wearing nice feminine clothing but she hadn’t had a wish to be a girl and didn’t want to be a real girl physically, as in taking estrogen and other pills to feminise her. She was heterosexual and attracted to women. She was uncomfortable with being obviously feminine outside the house. This included being embarrassed last week at the department store, my desire for her to have her ears pierced and to go to a nail shop to have obvious nail varnish applied. I had got to the bottom of the reluctance.

I explained that I, on the other hand wanted her to be a girl, but also not to have to take pills to remove her ability to use her clitty on me. I want her to have pierced ears and if I’m honest, to have implants and real boobs. I would also like her to have a hair weave to cover her thinning top and have hair extensions to her shoulders. I want to do things as two girls together, for her to wear dresses ALL the time even outside and for Alice to look just like a girl – but with male sexual abilities and this is my goal.

A slight impasse on the extent of Alice’s feminisation. Time for compromise. Alice agreed that my wishes are the most important but that if she was quite upset about something then we could think of a softer approach.

  • Firstly I agreed to stop embarrassing her in public by calling her Alice really loudly. I was not going to stop calling her Alice though and we agreed this but it would be at a normal speaking voice level. I also insisted that I would continue to call her ‘girl’ but agreed that it would be at a normal speaking voice outside the home, i.e. “be a good girl and get me a coffee”, or “silly girl” and so on.
  • I agreed not to hold female clothing up at her body in pubic in shops. We would go shopping together and I would still ask her opinion of her new female clothes.
  • I agreed that she didn’t have to wear coloured nail varnish outside the house and we wouldn’t have to go to a nail shop. We agreed we would have someone come to the house to do Alice’s nails. Alice’s toe nails would still be coloured bright pink or red but her finger nails could be clear.
  • I agreed not to force her to wear a skirt or dress in public. Alice still has to wear a skirt whilst driving and female trousers/blouse at other times outside the home. Skirts/dresses always at home of course this wasn’t up for negotiation. We would look for a fetish club where she will have to wear a skirt or dress. We also agreed that I will invite female friends to the house and she will have to wear skirts and dresses in front of them.
  • I agreed that she would not have to undergo breast implant surgery, which was a new revelation for her to be honest and a bit of a shock. In return she has agreed to have her ears pierced. I will allow her to remove the earrings for family get togethers and we will try to think of a reason for the two little holes. At other times she can wear two little studs outside the house and very feminine earrings inside.
  • We will look into the hair weave but for now we’re probably fine with the wigs due to cost.
  • Shaved body, make up, perfume etc. no change, as before.

All in all a fair compromise I think bearing in mind that many people are still very narrow minded. I’m pleased I have a girlie husband who accepts my view on the correct order of life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So pretty

Here in London the weather is really warming up, summer is here. It’s been fun having my girlie husband naked for a while but now I really want her looking very pretty and very summery. One of the things that really excites me is that even after 3 years of increasing feminisation, my girlie husband Alice still gets embarrassed when I talk to her about what a pretty girl she is, how feminine she is and how I want her to be even more feminine. I told her how pretty she would be in a new little summer skirt with flowery patterns. I like to make her talk about which skirts she would like and how they might feel.

So we went shopping. She has a nice selection of skirts but I really enjoy choosing new ones with her. We’ve been shopping for her many times but this time I wanted to continue to increase her feminisation outside the home as well. So I told Alice we were going to the shopping centre (a mall to my North American readers). Of course she now has to drive in a skirt, and then pull some female trousers over it in the car park before getting out. I do look forward to the time when she wears a skirt in public too but for now we do this.

So eventually I found a couple of nice summer skirts in the department store and held them up for Alice to see. “What do you think Alice, do you like these ones?” I said out loud. “Shhhh” she said “People can hear” Alice was looking very embarrassed but it has to be this way and she’ll get used to it. “I think you’ll look pretty in this one” I said holding up a nice flared skirt, white background with yellow and large green flowery patterns on it. By now Alice was very nervous, her eyes darting around. To be honest I’m not sure if anyone was really taking any notice but that didn’t matter as the idea is to get Alice used to being out shopping together for feminine things as one of the girls and for us to talk and act normally as two girls together.

Alice asked me not to be so obvious. My plan of course was exactly the opposite. So I held the skirt up against her body and said loudly “Yes that one suits you, you’ll look very pretty in it” and smiled at her. One or two people did actually look at this point which was great. I think they weren’t sure if I was joking or not.

“Ok go and buy yourself this one Alice” I said to her giving her the skirt to carry. I did go to the cashier with her but she had to carry it and buy it, I just stood beside her smiling happily.I don’t want to embarrass the cashier or bring someone else such as the young cashier unwittingly into our feminisation so I was careful what I said. I couldn’t resist saying to Alice when she was waiting for the cashier to put it in the back, “It’s very a very pretty skirt don’t you think?” She went red anyway.

So of course when we got home Alice had to change into the new skirt. Perfect, it had quite a bit of material and flared out from her waist. When she bent over I could see her bum (no knickers). Perfect with her white frilly vest, large chest and white sandals. I love summer, I think Alice does too really.

 

 

 

Lady A is in charge

In previous blogs I’d described how I prefer to bring my girlie husband (wife) along on her journey into womenhood. I like it to be largely consensual as she adapts and accepts so much better. I have to be clear though that it is my programme and we are following my wishes. Alice does enjoy being a girl and enjoy her clothes, and she enjoys leaving the leadership to me. Of course we have our disagreements over things but I really do try to bring her along with me. To be honest, without me driving things along she would have a fantasy but probably do little about it.

So back to my programme of getting Alice to be more comfortable outside the house in a skirt and a dress. Whilst exciting for her, the reality is she’s quite worried, obviously people may not react well to someone who might appear to be a man wearing a dress in the street. I understand this but there is much we can do. Going to more secluded places is one. The car is another. I had been trying all sorts of things to manoeuvre Alice into going outside in a skirt/dress but to be honest, I’ve got a bit tired of being gentle about it and about her feelings. I am the lead in this marriage after all. So I decided not to get any special ‘outside’ skirts or be gentle about it. I announced on Saturday that on Sunday we were going out in the car for the day. I told Alice that she will be wearing a short black pleated skirt and a tee shirt (female of course) and her flat shoes. She will not be taking emergency trousers to change into (which are female too but anyway) and she will be leaving the car for a picnic. Alice’s face was a picture and she made all sorts of excuses but I told her I’d had enough and this is what I want.

On Sunday morning I laid out her clothes. Alice dressed of course but there was a tension in the air as I confirmed that this was what she would be wearing to go out. I did have to get firm to order her into the car. She had to drive of course as I’m the Lady. It was a lovely day in the end and although quite amusing when we stopped and I had to coax her out of the car, It was a pretty deserted spot in Epping Forest out of London. We sat on the grass by the car and occasionally some people wandered by but no one noticed anything. Alice forgot and enjoyed herself. By 7pm we couldn’t see anyone around and I actually got her to walk for 20 minutes through the trees.

One of the things I always do is get Alice to describe how nice it is. I ask in the positive for example. “Tell me how it feels with the wind on your bare legs and blowing your skirt. It feels nice doesn’t it?” (although I had jeans on).

So in the end a success and a learning point for me that I will have to get annoyed sometimes to get what I want and I want Alice feminised ALL the time not just at home and I don’t really like her in trousers, even female ones.

 

My girlie

I like to think about things and particularly my relationship with  my girlie husband Alice. I think I need to stop using girlie husband and just call her my wife. I realise that I just want her to be a girl (with a large clitty for me to play with). I’m not sure why exactly, but I do – the girl bit not the clitty stick  bit which I do understand. She also enjoys it obviously, although is more worried about what everyone else would think if she were to be seen feminised. I am actually not worried at all. In fact I want her to be seen but one step at a time. I have realised that I don’t want her to be a sissy man but a women, I like her to wear normal female clothes so she looks and acts like a women. In fact I am thinking of relaxing the rule that she has to always wear very short skirts to allow her to have longer skirts. Still above the knee of course, but normal female clothing. Now she’s transitioned a long way into my Alice I don’t need to accentuate things so much as before. It might help her to accept more outside showings if dressed in a more modest length skirt. In fact I think we’ll go shopping together for the ‘outside’ skirt. If Alice helps to choose it as a going outside skirt we’re that much closer to the exciting day when she walks along the street in it. (I haven’t forgotten the pierced ears either). If you look at my Pinterest page you’ll see some of the photos of former husbands that I am using as models for Alice. I am enjoying Pinterest, I wish I’d thought of it before.

Stalled progress

The weather intervened in my plans to progress Alice’s outside female training significantly. I had planned a car ride into the countryside on Sunday as before but this time I was going to stop somewhere and make her go for a walk with me in a quiet area in her nice little skirt and blouse. The end game is of course that she goes out regularly dressed like this but small steps and so on.

Sunday was drizzly and although we went out for the drive it was a little miserable so we came back. I guess on the positive side, going out dressed as a female again in the car is a forward step. It’s just I wanted to go for a walk together in the daylight with her feminised. Oh well I see that next weekend will be nice…I hope so.

My new site

I’ve started a Pinterest site for my favourite pictures of feminisation. I believe all men being feminised would be a good thing for us women. Have a look and see if you like them too.

 

I love this particular photo as it’s pretty much how I’m planning my girlie husband Alice to look. Alice is a little older of course but  I can’t do anything about that, I think I can do the rest though. Alice actually has a skirt and a clitty very similar to this which is another reason to like the photo although  I do need to work on her  boobs and figure to get to this.

 

 

 

 

Great comments and more progress

One of the advantages of writing this blog is the comments I receive. In reality I am quite new to this having discovered feminisation only around 3 years ago so the ideas such as summer shoes and flowery skirts cement in my girlie’s mind that she’s a girl as did the comment about her wearing female trousers and blouses outside the home so she was always feminised. I will also take her to a fetish club to get her used to dressing in front of others but in a safe environment.

What started off as purely a bedroom game mushroomed quickly. I so enjoyed seeing my husband in feminine clothes and manner that I’m completely committed to turning him into a female although, I stress, not in the department down below where I continue to want him to operate as before. I’ve even feminised that calling it a clitty and making him shave his pubes into a female triangle shape above it; his clitty and balls of course completely shaved as is the rest of his body.

I continue to have progress on the wearing of female clothes outside the house. Wearing a skirt/dress in the garden has now become normal for her and, as in every part of this process, it’s about pushing her to the next increment of feminisation which then becomes normal and then you move onto the next one. So with her more used to wearing skirts outside albeit in the garden and occasionally in the car to pick me up from the station in the evenings, I’ve moved things onto the next small increment. Yesterday when I returned home from work around 6pm I announced I’d like to go out for a drive into the countryside. Alice was of course working at home in her nice white summer dress. It has straps and bare arms and shoulders and was perfect as it was quite humid yesterday. Alice said she’d change into trousers and blouse. “Oh no, I want you to drive in the dress”. Alice looked horrified. I did allow her to put on a cardigan but other than that she had to drive in the dress. Alice did want to put some trousers in the car in case of emergency, flat tyre or whatever. I did allow this but they were folded on the back seat. We drove north out of London which is of course in bright daylight at 7pm up to about 10.30ish at this time of year. She drove in her dress and flat shoes and we got back a couple of hours later without incident. We didn’t leave the car but I think you probably know where this is going. Tomorrow we’ll be going out again but during the day. Alice doesn’t yet realise it but she’ll be going in a little skirt and blouse and we’ll be going to the countryside again but this time we’re going to go for a short walk somewhere secluded. Each time little increments. I’m getting there and to be honest I’m in the mood to push a little faster to complete the process.