I realise that my husband and I have come a long way in our relationship. Three years ago we were a ‘normal’ couple when we discovered a new activity to spice up our love life; ‘forced’ feminisation and submission. He now lives a feminised life in the home but much less so outside the home. I call him a her and a girl (not a women as girl shows the relationship levels between her and me) and I have named her Alice. I speak down to her as she is my inferior. It’s been a voyage of discovery and I wish I’d found out about this lifestyle many years ago. Alice obviously enjoys the lifestyle too of course but sometimes has to be dragged along a little into new areas she is initially uncomfortable with.
I, on the other hand, prefer my man to be feminised BUT still able to perform his sexual duties even though I am completely in control in the bedroom. That’s to say feminine in appearance and manner and submissive to me. I particularly like her to be extremely feminine, with a short pretty dress or skirt in white or pink or yellow maybe, stockings with high heels and so on in order to accentuate her feminisation which turns me on sexually and in a control sense. I have feminised her gradually to a point where she accepts that is her gender now, more or less, and is happy with this. This works very well inside the home but continues to be difficult outside for her to accept this despite various discussions and blogs on the subject which she reads and initially accepts. Many of the changes I have made Alice initially doesn’t want to do but she slowly becomes used to them and finally they become a normal part of her life. Knickers being a great example, she prefers to wear them and would never consider male underpants.
I can understand, to some extent, the reluctance to wear skirts and dresses outside the house as this could cause problems in some situations but I continue to face refusals on getting her to have her ears pierced. I also want her to wear feminine rings on her fingers. I suppose nothing goes completely smoothly and I probably want too much too soon. I’ve found the best way is to introduce these things gradually. For example for her to wear the rings in the home then she‘ll get used to them. For her to wear skirts in the garden outside to become accustomed to this and while driving which she does at times. I know this is the way. I know that eventually she will get her ears pierced. But I really want her fully feminised now. Patience. I will get there eventually and report it here when I do..