Feminisation Stories

Why don’t you have a look at my FREE feminisation stories. These are my fantasies, I would like to be in the situations of the dominant lady in my stories. I like to imagine the humiliation of my girlie husband as the other protagonist. Click on the my feminisation stories link below and choose one of my stories: The new job or A Sister-in-Law’s Law

My feminisation stories

I hope you enjoy them and please do let me know what you think of them, give me some comments and new ideas….

Lady A

More attention required

Lady A is ramping up the relationship change. It’s fine to have her girle mostly feminised and to administer punishment when neccesary (and for her fun and pleasure too of course). However she’s worried that her girl doesn’t always pay sufficient attention to her pleasure.Lady A has set out a new regime for her girlie wife.

She doesn’t mean just sexual pleasure which is fine, but she demands that she be spoilt too. Arriving at home after a busy day and being picked up at the station in the car by her former girlie husband now girlie wife in a dress, on arriving at home she demands that she be treated as the lady she is. Her coat should be removed and hung up. Her shoes removed and put away. She should be served a tea whilst she relaxes on the sofa. She demands that her feet and legs be massaged while taking her tea. At times if she’s been on her feet at work then maybe her feet should be washed.

This is the role she expects from her girl (former husband).

You’re no longer a man, you’re a girl now

We started on the ‘encouraged’ feminisation road only some 3 years ago. For most of the journey we have gradually increased the time that Lady A’s girlie husband was feminised and gradually increased the level of feminisation.For example although now always in knickers with pink toe nails, girlie husband would always have times being a man such as when going out of the house. So we had a distinction between girlie husband and socially acceptable husband.

We do have to maintain appearances with family, friends and neighbours and we need to continue this. However Lady A really wants her girlie husband to be a girl all the time. She has put in place new rules, such as pink nail varnish on his toes at all times, and now she is ready for the next phase of his feminisation. This will start from tomorrow morning and these are the new things he must do (in addition to the exisiting rules of course).

1. From tomorrow her husband will no longer be referred to as her husband. He will be her wife. You will see this from now in the blog and he will be called Lady A’s wife or the girl.

2. He will never again be referrred to as a ‘he’ ever. ‘She’ and ‘her’ only. She is now a girl.

3. She (Lady A’s wife) will grow her hair longer. This will make her more female in appearence. However, it’s a bit thin on top due to some inconvenient male hormones remaining and her age so she will buy a wig and wear this at home. She will also at times wear a hair band or a pony tail when working or cooking.

4. Lady A’s wife will grow her nails longer and wear nail varnish at all times. Clear outside the home and pink or red around the house.

5. The girl will now buy some short housemaid’s dresses with a small apron when cleaning and cooking at home.

6. The girl will dispose of all her male socks and wear only feminine tights or stockings. Even when going out in male clothes for appearences sake, the girl will wear tights or stockings under her trousers.

7. The girl will wear female perfume everyday.

8. The girl will wear skirts when driving at all times. She can slip into trousers over the top when leaving the car for appearences sake.

9. The girl will dispose of her wardrobe of shirts used for appearences sake outside the house. She will buy replacement blouses  to wear instead.

10. The girl will get her ears pierced. She won’t have to always wear earrings outside the house (for appearences sake) but Lady A wants her to have her ears pierced like most girls.

11. The girl will wear a bra at all times unless it’s really a difficult situation.

12. The girl will dispose of her wardrobe of male pullovers, jumpers and cardigans. Female ones will be bought to replace them.

13. The girl will wear make up every day. Light foundation and eye make up for outside and full make up at home.

We are also looking onto where we can find flat female footwear in UK size 9 for wearing outside the house. Obviously high heels are always worn at all times indoors.

Lady A wants her girl to only wear female clothes so once the new clothes have been bought her girl will only have male trousers to wear outside the home. Lady A is looking at larger size (in leg length) female trousers on line to see if there is anything suitable. Once successful her girl will only have female clothes.

Lady A has to stay on top of things

The temperature has dropped in London since Boxing Day and, from experience, Lady A knows she has to keep on tops of the situation at this time. Her girlie husband is liable to need a bit of ‘encouragement’ to stay feminised at home. It’s all too easy for him to slip even after all this time. He put on a pair of trousers yesterday in the morning for the first time for a long time. They were going to stay at home so he was breaking Lady A’s rules. He complained that he was feeling a little chilly around his legs when he was in his nightie so decided to put on a pair of trousers. Even though the central heating was on full. “Oh no you’re not!” said Lady A who was not at all happy. However she was not unsympathetic to his feeling of being a bit cold. Even though she was wearing trousers herself, they are obviously not permitted for her girlie husband. The danger is that things could slip back to him being male with all the problems that entails.

Luckily, their skirt size is similar so he is able to wear those skirts of Lady A’s with elasticated waistbands. Lady A announced that she was not prepared to drop the no trousers rule. However, she would relax the 9 inches above the knee rule during the chillier weather. She found a couple of knee length skirts with a lining and he was ordered to remove his trousers and wear these skirts during the colder weather. This he did of course and normality was resumed in the household.

A Christmas Femdom Poem

A Christmas Femdom Poem by Lady A

T’was the night before Christmas and there’s barely a sound

But Lady A wants attention and look what she’s found

Her girlie husband in a short schoolgirl’s skirt

“Pamper me now” she orders so curt

He kneels down before her, so female and sweet

He kisses her toes, massages her feet

Lady A’s happy, a smile on her face

Looking down at her husband, all pink frills and lace

It may soon be Christmas but a punishment he won’t lack

As he pulls down his knickers, prepared for a smack

Lady A’s ready, she raises her belt

And brings it down fiercely, oh that he felt.

Punishment over, he thanks her so much

And prepares the dinner with a good girlie touch

Lady loves him and loves what she can see

As he serves her the food with a respectful curtsy

Hair tied with a bow, lipstick so bright

He looks  just like a women from the first sight

Her girlie husband, so feminine, so meek

As he listens submissively to Lady A speak

“Women in charge, it’s what I believe

Every day, every minute, but especially on Christmas Eve….

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Obedience and Discipline

We haven’t covered this area that much in our blog. That’s probably because we like to think of ourselves as quite normal. That’s to say that we believe a wife led marriage with attraction, affection, love and a feminised husband is normal. As we’ve written before, why should a male led relationship with a feminine supporting wife be normal if a female led relationship with a feminised supporting husband cannot be. Of course it’s perfectly normal. And this is why probably we haven’t gone on much about discipline and obedience to the lady of the house. It takes us into the possible realms of  fetish lifestyle and we want to feel ‘normal’.

However, in a wife led relationship with a feminised husband, discipline is a key part of the deal and we are no different to any other couple in this regard. Lady A’s girlie husband has the housewife tasks to perform and above all, he has to show respect and devotion to the Lady of the house at all times. Lady A therefore has two types of discipline: management discipline and punishment discipline. Management discipline is the everyday discipline that Lady A uses to manage the relationship and ensure obedience. Punishment discipline is obvious and occasionally necessary.

Management Discipline:

Lady A will spank her girlie husband when she feels like it. This is not associated with any misdemeanor that her girlie will have done. Lady A believes that management discipline is vital for any female led relationship to ensure that standards never slip and to demonstrate who is in charge. The discipline can be a number of things:

1. Lady A has recently started using a belt to spank her girlie. Girlie has to bend over, drop her knickers to her ankles and raise her skirt to show her bare bottom. Lady A will spank it with a belt. She feels the belt is a very suitable article to demean her girlie husband with.

2. Lady A will use a riding crop using the same approach as above but usually when Lady A is feeling very ‘mistressy’.

3. Lady A will use a hair brush or bare hand as for 1 and 2.

4. Lady A will tell her girlie to drop her kickers and raise the front of her skirt/dress to expose her pussy and clitty stick. Lady A will slap girlie’s clitty stick with her hand, slapping it from side to side. On other occasions she will tell girlie to hold out her clitty stick by holding the end. Lady A will then slap girlie’s clitty with a ruler or with her riding crop.

5. Clothing discipline. Lady A will ensure humiliation every so often by ensuring that girlie will wear something extremely humiliating. For example girlie husband will have to wear a very short and frilly pink ballerina type skirt that doesn’t actually cover her pussy. Girlie will not be permitted to wear knickers, just the skirt and a pink blouse. Oh and 4 inch heels to accentuate the showing.

6. Clitty and pussy decoration. Aside from slapping it, Lady A will occasionally decorate her girlie’s clitty stick and pussy when she’s feeling arty. Girlie will not be permitted to wear knickers or a skirt for the evening, just high heels, stockings and a top. Lady A may tie a pink bow around girlie’s clitty and pussy, or paint it nice colours with pink or yellow body paint. She may tie beads and rings around it or maybe clip things to it such as hanging earrings. She will possibly tie little bows into the small triangle of pubes above girlie’s shaved clitty stick. Girlie has to then wear these decorations on her pussy and clitty for the whole evening.

7. Girlie must always curtsey after serving Lady A something or doing something for her. Failure to do so will lead to the next stage below.

 

Punishment Discipline:

This is used for any misdemeanor that girlie may do and annoys Lady A. It could actually be for anything so is difficult to list anything specific. Maybe girlie was too slow to serve a drink, maybe girlie forgot to curtsey which is something that happens far too often. Maybe girlie was getting too fond of wearing a beautiful dress and forgot to compliment Lady A on her beauty. All the punishments involving spanking above are used, often with a bit more force. The belt has become the favourite of late.

When girlie is becoming too immersed in her own femininity and forgets about Lady A, Lady A will force her girlie to remove all her clothes and remain naked for the rest of the day/evening. After a good spanking with the belt that is.

To be honest, Lady A does have to keep on top of things to stop her girlie forgetting the situation. Lady A feels that all ladies in this type of relationship need to do the same, even though their girlie husbands may be enjoying the situation. Selfishness or complacency will always creep into the the girlie husband’s thinking and this needs to be spotted and stamped on immediately and eradicated.

Encouraged feminisation

Lady A and her feminised husband often think a lot about why we and others enjoy ‘forced feminisation’. To start with we’re going to disagree with the term ‘forced feminisation’ since this implies that the feminisation was imposed by just one party, the female, when in fact it was certainly wanted by both. Ok the man probably didn’t realise at first, he just needed some encouragement due to his internal social and physiological rules making the idea of being feminised seem not be be the natural order of life.  For this reason we prefer to call it ‘Encouraged Feminisation’.

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We often discuss this and ask ourselves why? These are some of our thoughts and what we believe are the answers.

From birth our society teaches us that females have the feminine supporting role and males the macho provider and leader role. As we grow older females are taught, encouraged and shown how to dress more feminine with pretty dresses with long hair, colours such as pinks, whites and yellows.  Their appearances becoming increasingly sexual as they get older.Males on the other hand are encouraged to wear plain clothes that cover them fully with colours like blues and greys. Males are taught by society to be the providers and leaders and women the supporters. Ok this has changed somewhat over the past thirty years but go to any office and you’ll see that the majority of workers are male in grey or blue suits, no flesh showing besides their faces and hands and short cropped, often military hairstyles.  However, how many of the women will have dresses or skirts, legs showing through sheer stockings or tights, probably quite a lot of neck and neck line showing. Maybe some chest on show. Long or longish pretty hair, maybe some nice hair clips. If there is a role reversal in a family with the women as the provider and the man staying at home then it usually makes the society or home sections of the newspapers or there is a documentary about it on the telly.  I have worked with a married couple where each has a similar senior management role but when there have been problems with their baby sitter or other domestic situations then it’s the woman who goes home to sort things out.

We know that structure has been loosened somewhat but it’s still there.

So what’s our point? Our point is that the current social structure is actually UNNATURAL. Why are men supposed to be the providers? Why are women expected to dress more provocatively for the enjoyment of men? Don’t women also like to look at men’s legs, necks and bums? And more? Why shouldn’t men be expected to dress more sexual for the benefit of women.Why shouldn’t men wear pretty dresses and skirts, stockings, pretty pink blouses? Why can’t men wear long styled hair as the norm for the benefit of women? Why is this considered wrong? I don’t think the world would stop turning. Why do men wear trousers and women dresses? No reason, these are just made up rules.

The fact is that some men do like to be in charge but then so do some women. Other men most certainly do not and neither do some women. Isn’t the natural order of life really between the Alpha men and WOMEN of the world as leaders and providers and the non Alpha men and women as the feminised supporters?

Our relationship and attraction was certainly that Lady A is an Alpha female and her husband is not. Lady A led him into the world of feminisation where it enabled him to escape from the expectations of being an Alpha leader/provider 24/7 to being a supporting housewife at home, which is indeed the more natural order. Lady A loves to see his long legs in beautiful stockings and therefore ensures he wears nice pretty short dresses and skirts. He enjoys the attention and the fact she’s attracted to his body. It’s true that our relationship also includes some discipline but that is also necessary to maintain control in a natural alpha / non-alpha relationship.

Feminisation of your menfolk is not therefore a strange fetish as some may have you believe, but a very natural order of life. Let’s hope it becomes even more common and we encourage all readers to either do it in your own relationship or if that’s not possible find someone who is your natural fit.

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(We found these drawings on this post on the web but apologise as we can’t remember where from. If they are yours please let us know and we’ll reference them).